Which programs? Can you give examples of the poorly worded goals? Where do they come from? |
+1 Public schools are dealing with kids throwing chairs across the room. No private school has anything close to the behavior issues public schools deal with. And that isn’t a criticism- no one paying for school is going to put up with disruptive behavior. |
Who in their right mind would accept $20-25/hour to spend the day with only the most challenging of children??? |
Exactly. |
Your request absolutely makes sense. It’s not being executed because of the case loads teachers carry. They’re barely keeping their heads above water with attending meetings and turning out IEPs and 504s. |
Ours did not reflect the PLOP. Like the PLOP needs x, y, and Z. No goals matched the needs. I went through and highlighted that stuff and wrote goals and sent it back. Ridiculous.
Then one teacher said she “picked” that goal because it seemed best. Um - so you have a list of goals and you choose one? No, that is not how this works - write the goals the child needs. Ugh! |
We do the same! |
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Parent here. We have a responsibility to look at these things and make sure they make since and are in the best interest of the child. I have one kid whose team wrote a wonderful IEP and accommodations list that was well thought-out. Another kid, same issues, has a case carrier whose...not that great at doing this. However, if I ask for an accommodation or a goal, explain why, using their data, she just adds it in.
Parents need to be active team members. Now, I know many of you are and have to fight like a bear on cocaine for your child's education. I 'm not talking about you. |
There is no maximum number of goals. You are the one who needs retraining. |
It's condescending for the parent to want to fully participate and not just take the drivel offered by the school? Okaaay. |
Believe it or not, some people actually like our kids and enjoy working with them. Some of the most compassionate and best people working with my kid have been aides and paras. |
yeah well, then their failure to be organized justs means more meetings with me. |
well then enjoy having 2-3 IEP meetings with me because I won’t sigh the terribly written IEP you send hours before the meeting. |
Not me you couldn't pay me enough to deal with your BS and yes you sound condescending and rude. |