Copy that |
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I never put it in writing
I have said it aloud when a family member says something I disagree with when trying to provoke me. I just say “noted,” as in I have noted their opinion or position in the matter. That is all. |
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Noted.
I have made a note of it. |
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It’s a common Gray Rock Technique to de-escalate a topic with an abuser.
Abuser says some wild outlandish accusation. You say, “I have noted your view.” You are neither agreeing or disagreeing with it; you are merely noting what they said. It’s excellent from a legal stance- you’re responsive, yet not getting aggravated or contributing to the potential argument.and you’re not showing your hand. |
Only people in career using “noted” in past were people on PIPs or about ti be on PIPs. I rather no response. |
| My old boss use to do this. It's condescending. What's funny is that although she would reply "noted," she never in fact recalled being made aware of anything and feigned ignorance when issues arose. |
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It’s either that or “10-4 good buddy”
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Or they prefer efficiency in communication. |
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I have no issue with this. A past boss didn’t like his own writing so he wrote short emails. After a while, I was used to it. He never write “noted,” but it would be fine if he had.
I don’t need exclamation points and smiley faces in an email. But since others find the word “noted” offensive, I’ll be sure not to use it. It’s funny how right people think they are about this topic when it’s really just your interpretation, which could be right or wrong. The assumption is the other person is passive aggressive and so on—just from one word. PS: If your direct report is working too many WFH days, then have a conversation instead of sending an email. But I guess you passive aggressively wanted to keep a paper trail… |
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What do you want from them, OP? You should include your request. You are the problem here. For example, you could say:
Please attend the staff meeting at xxtime and date. Or You were late twice. (I’m not sure what you are looking for here, but you could request an explanation, you can explain the consequence, or whatever your point for sending the email). |
Your writing could use work. You’ve left out several words that would create correct sentences. It’s likely you have the communication problem yet blame others when you don’t get the response you think you are asking for. I assume English is not your first language? |
I wouldn't leap to that. Being obsessed over not liking a word other people use isn't something a second language learner usually does. A second language learner has more humility toward the language. |
Mmm, yes, PP should add "Notice me, senpai!" to their email signature, to get more attention. |
And I view people like you as having the emotional intelligence of a 14 year old girl seeking attention and approval. So you are right, sweetie, we wouldn't be a fit. |
| I’m guilty of saying noted at times in my work chat. My work is client facing and the pace is frenetic at times so I have little time to stop what I’m doing to respond to messages. I mean it as shorthand for “I’m making a note to remember/do this”. It has never been meant as anything more. But after reading this thread and realizing how it can be construed, I will never use it again. |