You have no idea of her situation. Could be abusive DH with prenup, gambling problem, precarious job No wonder they try to hide info from your prying eye. You are a snoop, gossip, and big*t. |
Since her husband is extremely senior person on a full relocation package with rent paid for and she is trailing spouse she does not have to work. I was fortunate to get same relocation package once and my wife certainly did not have to work. She just wants out of house. The women smells of money. We got another one at work. She drives a $140k car to wish and lives in a 2 million dollar home and works for 90k a year. Good for her. But she brags about it. Her shoes are a weeks salary. She is also mom with a one year old in neighborhood Why hide it? I have a 2 million dollar home and I don’t hide it. I certainly could not buy it on this salary. I tell people I used to make a lot of cash. |
Not every married person wears a ring anymore. You should get out more. |
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You seem scary invested in this person. You both also seem superficial and obsessed with people who "don't need to work." She has a job—get over it. If someone doesn't need to work, then guess what—they don't work. She works for a reason! |
We also have a lot of LAZY people at work who actually need the money. One women here 25 years simply because she lives walking distance. No promotion last 15 years. She could drive to metro, take train to DC. Work 9 hours, take metro home, drive home metro. We also have golf guys. I mean literally the CFO plays golf nearly every Friday on remote day. Legal types who need “focus time” remote. Beach house people who since we are remote Tuesday and Friday take every Monday in July and August as vacation days and stay at beach Thursday evening to Tuesday evening each week. It pays less for a reason be it child care, sick parents, lazy people, what ever. Everyone at work has a backstory. Nobody works here for the money. My backstory three very high stress high pay jobs in a row looking to coast till retirement. We have people as old as 75 at work. Three days a week in neighborhood why retire? My high stress job everyone was here for the money. No backstory |