Also, this claim about "you can't participate and sports and extracurriculars" if you transfer is a lie. The VHSL rules only govern ATHLETICS. The family is trying to make it sound like transferees can't do theater, band, clubs, etc. That's not what the rule is and their attempt to conflate the issue and suggest it is consistent with their bad faith arguments from the start. |
This is absolutely true. There is a double standard. I know the people involved and getting to a state championship had nothing to do with this transfer. The optics are unfortunate. I understand why the rules are in place and you don't want a coach or school recruiting a whole team of players but I think in this situation where we are talking about one girl, her senior year, they should have made the exception. One player is not going to be the factor that makes the team win a championship. if you read the other threads Battlefield is parents are pretty convinced they are taking the championship this year. There is always drama with girls lacrosse in this area. Every club and every school. At the end of the day this is one child wanting to play a sport for a couple of months. |
So now this hypothetical racist strawman is your argument? Puhleeze. You're really grasping at straws. The girl is being treated exactly the same as other athletes who have transferred and had their eligibility put on hiatus for one year. She's not special. The parents seem to think the rules shouldn't apply because she allegedly got bullied and has mental health problems. She still has her club team, could go play rec, and will play in college. It's not like playing HS lacrosse is all she has. |
I’m assuming Lauren is the mom and sorry but that’s not me but I’m guessing from the comments it’s personal and there are both parties represented here. I wouldn’t put my kid through this if she had mental health struggles, even if she begged me to fight it. It’s not healthy and I would as I suggested probably move her to a private school or move to a new district because I know from living there that LoCo is a small world, especially for the kids and with social media. I’m guessing you’re directly involved in this based on your comments but if you took the time to read my comment I said it was wrong to mention a child’s name—assuming she was 18 maybe it’s legal but absolutely wrong and no doubt that kid is now struggling too. I also said it’s bad because that entire team now has to deal with speculation that they’re bullies. But I do stand by the fact that I find it hard to believe a senior girl would chose to switch high schools for that final year for the sole reason to potentially win a state championship in one sport. It’s just not something you see a girl who is happy and thriving at her school do. Plus, no offense this is not MD private school level lacrosse with a championship meaning you’re one of the best HS teams in the country, and if Indy is 16th how do they even have a shot not being top 10? At a minimum she was having social issues whether it was in school or in sports. And I’m not sure who has the right to question that because I would not respond well if someone was questioning if any of my daughters or sons was struggling—that’s gross. And is this woman wrong saying that a kid who transferred for the same reasons but was in marching band could participate in that or could get the lead in a play? The rule only applies to sports? That seems a messed up message too. |
So you do know if she’s a senior in high school that club is over, there’s no spring club games anyway once in high school, and definitely no rec. Spring = high school lacrosse only. |
club ends junior year. They don't play club senior year beucause players are already recruited. |
Nice that you’ve judged her motivation and called her a liar. Btw - there is no rec or club at that age. |
This comment is straight garbage absolutely no one has the "RIGHT" to play! |
Yes, she's wrong. VHSL stands for Virginia High School League. It governs athletics statewide. The eligibility provision is a statewide rule, not something LCPS made up. What they wanted was a WAIVER and LCPS denied it, likely because of the optics that have been discussed here. So they sued, arguing that their daughter had some right to play on the high school team because of her mental health. LCPS and a judge decided the interests of others outweighed that. But there's NOTHING here that restricts a student who transfers from doing activities like marching band, theater, yearbook, Model UN, or whatever. And suggesting that there's some precedent here that DOES restrict transferees from doing that is just a lie. This is entirely about athletics. And the policy is in place to prevent recruiting between HS and player poaching. |
Her reps must be terrible. There are so many arguments and exceptions. This is obviously about net letting the wp family get anything whatsoever. |
https://fxasports.com/league-details/sunday-night-women-s-lacrosse-spring-24/LG4142647 |
Dayum, that was my comment. I mean I've definitely contributed to the trash heap of DCUM history, but this ain't it sweetie. Swap right with opportunity, we happy now? |
Is this free like it is for PS? Are the participants the same age? Apples to oranges. |
Amazing the defense of LCPS here. Guess it's ok to sweep all the corruption that has occurred in LCPS the past 4 years. Whether the reporting is biased or not, LCPS continues to show its ignorance. |
Got it but in the competitive environment we live in to dismiss there couldn’t be “recruiting” of the smartest kids so kids could win academic competitions for pride and college applications or a kid wanting to move to the school with the best drama program so they can tout being the lead in so and so’s production on their acting resume seems wrong. It’s not fair to single out athletes and it’s wrong to dismiss the importance of these other activities. But I guess that’s another topic. Seems like LCPS should have not granted the transfer waiver because they’ve now become the arbiter of a child’s mental health struggles. That’s scary. Whether people chose to believe her or not, I know it’s not my right to question her because I’m not living it. Plus it sounds like from the media that she’s been in therapy so again, LCPS should have denied the transfer knowing participation in sports for an established athlete is part of their identity and if a positive environment can play a healthy role in improving mental health. By granting the transfer waiver and not the sports LCPS set her up for failure. A very sad way for this girl to have to finish high school-I think we can all agree on that and hope that college provides her with a fresh and positive experience. |