I am the OP, that’s how I know. They don’t quite hit the mark for being rude. It would be all clear cut if they did. |
Op here, I am sorry this happened to you. It is clear though who was in the wrong. I am talking about less clear cut cases where they ask extra questions, request BS extra evidence, mansplain, etc. I know I should let it roll off my back but I am just so tired of it. |
Well they were very clear cut rude on many occasions when I was going through the process. So much so, that I took my American friend with me one time (because she didn't believe me) and she was appalled at some of the behavior. |
No sympathy taking our jobs |
I am sorry about that! This wasn’t my experience but a lot of unnecessary BS (I am NOT talking about logical security related questions!) |
OP here: I am actually sympathetic to your concern but I hope you don’t work in immigration. Outside or work people are entitled to opinions! |
Take your ignorance elsewhere. |
Those people at the airports at customs and border control can be kind of pissy with everyone. We are all born in the US, Caucasian etc…but sometimes the officers get a little sarcastic, annoying etc…I don’t know if it’s because their jobs are boring, stressful, power trip, whatever. think you are overthinking it. |
I don’t actually think they treat me like that because I am an immigrant but thanks for kind of confirming my observation.
My problem is that it gets to me too much! Thanks for sharing, it helps
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Border control agents take particular pleasure in being rude and controlling towards visa holders, OP. When I return to the US at Dulles airport, I've only once, in 20 years, come across a polite one!!! One at the Niagara Falls border yelled at my husband so everyone could hear and called him a liar. His manager had to come from the back office and calm him down in front of everyone. It's scary, because you know you're at the mercy of border control and have to stay polite at all times.
That being said, a lot of low-level public-facing government workers end up being grumpy, because the public isn't well-informed about their documents, and can sometimes be entitled too! In this country AND my home country
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The process to be allowed to work here is actually incredibly grueling, PP. We are immigrants from Europe and needed to show we were more qualified than Americans to do the job, and that no one else could be found to do it. We have a huge file of documents proving our academic worth. USCIS asked if we had a Nobel Prize, and because we didn't, we had to file even more awards, grants, letters of recs, etc. Somehow I don't think we work in the same field
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NP here - there are many types of work visas, not all based on receiving international acclaim. If you’re taking about the visa for someone with “extraordinary abilities” science or art - you would know that eligibility wasn’t about being “more qualified than Americans” for a job. Rather, eligibility was contingent on proving sustained national or international recognition of your accomplishments - hence the need for proof of your professional awards. |
This! Some customs officials are on a massive power trip. Same with military. I actually think US officials are much kinder than other countries. |
| I am an American diplomat and I sometimes get rude behavior at customs and immigration. Why I do know is, they are trying to do their job. They need to find people who are trying to enter this country on false documents, or who are trafficking persons, or who are here on false pretenses. It is their job to ask questions and challenge you on your documents. I was challenged when I was traveling without my child and not my husband (they were concerned I was kidnapping my child, which does happen when there is a custody dispute). Yes, I was perturbed by the questions and by the fact that I was carrying a black passport, but I also could have been absconding from another country with my child. It is their job to ask questions that will catch you off guard, because that is when you are mot likely to lie (and when they can catch the lie). |