Yes, most things about GDS are great. Great faculty, especially. The point of this post is that the administration and high school principal are lacking. Despite a mediocre counseling office (many parents hire outside college counselors), this year's GDS seniors are a great group of kids yielding great results. |
Another GDS parent here. I just asked my kid to ask their friends who have experienced the disciplinary process and they confirmed all of this and the article is true. Holy smokes this is a terrible process. The kids don’t even know what they are being accused of when they go in front of the committee? Wow. This seems like something that deserves a letter to the board. This is actually shocking. For everything this school says it believes about the justice system, this is actually how they handle it internally? What utter hypocrisy!! |
Agreed. Not a senior parent but my kid knows a lot of the seniors. It’s a special group of kids. Their success has nothing to do with yom or the college office. |
That may be the point, but that isn't how it's going. You have teachers and administrators with zero to little behavioral science background implementing this stuff. Some go rogue with their own interpretations and others have no idea what they're doing and how to attend to the victim's needs. In some cases, you need to jump to consequences. Otherwise, what message is that saying? You can hit a peer hard in front of a teacher and keep on going without any school consequence? Cause yes, that happened to my dc. |
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Back to the first question on this string....as a 9 year GDS parent yes, the HS admin is very weak. Teachers are the gem and they really care about the kids. But, the admin is soo out of touch. They try to force the kids to meet with them with repeated emails but kids have no interest.
Also, there is NO appetite for diverse thinking at this school - its the far left or you are considered a complete idiot. When this is raised with teachers they agree but their hands are tied and they express frustration. The HS principal is a total joke. The placement of the seniors is good but dont mistake that for the admin. They dont help one bit. We are excited to be done with that place. |
Totally agree. New to this thread and agree with everything you say and in the thread. The admin is terrible and out of touch. Talk to the older teachers and in private they will often reveal what they feel. They despise the admin and the regressive way the admin runs the school. The teachers feel hamstrung in what they can say in classes. The admin will send monitors into controversial classes like teachers who discuss Israel Palestine. Teachers feel like they are being watched by the GDS speech police. It's a very small minority of kids who like the admin. Most side with and love their teachers. Most kids feel as the teachers do - a particularly weak principal and her entire office and many of her underlings are also weak "yes men" who have an axe to grind on regressive speech monitoring. We are almost done after many years and a few kids here. I can't wait. I will never ever give another dollar to the place. The place changed for the worse in last 3-4 years. Especially the HS. But not just that. There have been a cascade of bad hiring decisions at LS/MS principal level too. L ike many, we love(d) Russell but you can't just be good at giving speeches. Privately someone said HOS is even afraid of his admin in some ways. Return in person was latest of *any* DMV school after COVID b/c he was afraid of a revolt from his administrators. Wow. If that. is true, that tells you a lot. The tail wags the dog here. The entire place needs to be cleaned out of its leadership, I'm afraid. That said, I wonder if the board has the balls to do this. Looking at the board, I doubt it. My two who already graduated from GDS mostly have terrible things to say about the admin and the speech police and great things to say about the vast majority of the teachers. They feel no sense of pride in having gone there, no bind to the school overall. |
Perhaps inside of school, but not outside. I'm noticing an increase in diverse thinking outside of school among some parents and students. With over-the-top dei practices (GDS is not alone in DC), the pendulum feels like it's shifting to the right in some circumstances. The inability to predict this shift and hire administrative experienced talent is disappointing. |
I've never understood why so many parents give him a free pass while complaining about everything else. |
| I am a GDS middle school parent and this whole thread is super frustrating. I don't understand why parents aren't bringing this to the attention of the board. My good friends at an equivalent private school were instrumental in implementing admin change via board actions. Even at the HOS level (not implying Russell should leave), just saying with enough voices that change occurs. For those on the way out, just curious if you've raised your concerns in writing to board members or others. |
I agree with this. I see it happening around us. At every parent dinner, coffee, meeting. And yet GDS remains as restrictive as ever on diverse views outside of one minimester elective and one HS speaker recently who was ex military and fox news. These administrators were hired exactly because of their views. Until they are turned over, nothing will change. But they will all be turned over. It will just take longer than most of us are gonna be around for as parents. |
Because he's smart, involved and compassionate. He's more than a gifted speaker. Also, can you imagine who they might hire if he leaves? Given recent HOS hiring at other schools, GDS is darn lucky to have him. |
Russell's total comp in 2022 was nearly $1 million vs. $200k or less for everyone on down. Riddle that one. |
There is a pretty deep impression that those who reach out to the board are viewed as non-compliant parents, squeaky wheels and it disadvantages their kids. I actually dont believe this to be true but many are afraid. Those who tried to complain about school's slow return after vaccination policies were ignored or worse. My kid is almost done here so I'm stepping up and writing letters to HOS and the board. I'm afraid many wont. One more thing: GDS is a particularly tougher place for boys. There is much work societally to do for girls and women, but GDS, like many institutions is increasingly not meeting boys where they are. Acc to my kid, an anonymous straw poll of one of the HS classes was recently taken by students and over 1/3rd of the boys said they would vote for Trump if they could vote. I'm not sure if this is higher or lower than a random sampling of DMV private school boys but it seems awfully high for GDS That's not something to be ignored. Of course it's not directly relevant to this thread either and I recognize that |
That's in line w/ others schools of its ilk I believe. But it's still shockingly high. Teacher starting salary is 45k and maxes around 85k. That's the most distressing stat. Meanwhile there are 20+ DEI and community engagement staff at the school across divisions. And DEI only means one thing. Not jewish kids, not middle eastern kids, not indian kids. Bareky hispanic kids. Just one thing. Such a bummer. Reason this school was started was not to be a regressive place with speech limitations. Ask any HS student if they feel comfortable sharing political views that dont match the blue haired minority. They dont. |
I am one of the previous posters and a HSl parent and we've been beyond frustrated but also on our way out. We have brought issues informally to members of the board that we know. Generally the answer is no answer: that the board doesn't have the ability to facilitate change or its slow change or the HOS isn't really aware or involved of day-to-day as he leaves it to the administrators. We considered formally raising issues but our senior did not want us to cause a fuss or put a spotlight on them because of fear of unfair treatment. When we brought issues up to teachers and advisors the answer was generally we are aware but I'm just the "xx" teacher, no one listens to me. |