Were you not a 14/15 year old before? Did you really have your parents determining what you did? I certainly didn’t. Neither did anyone I know. What has changed? |
NP here. Thanks for the perspective. On the foreign language recommendation, what is preferable for college, maxing out at AP foreign language (even if it’s in 10th grade) or taking the same language for for years straight? |
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I did. My mom was involved with everything, even in college. My mom even picked the colleges to apply to. Every family is different. So, nothing changed in our family. |
Does your student need or want this level of parental involvement? |
Absolutely horrific. Does she still control your life? You know your role as a parent is to help your child move toward independence. |
DP. "Absolutely horrific" is a bit much here. Different families make different choices. |
I was glad mine were there to help guide me. |
If your child hits AP in 10th grade, that’s totally fine! Colleges receive a school profile from each high school counselor with an overview of course offerings. They will be able to see that your child has taken advantage of every course offering in their language of study. If your school offers classes beyond AP (some schools have a 7 level post-AP class), I would encourage your child to take that class. If you happen to have a kid who is genuinely excited about the language they’re learning and maxes out before 12th grade, consider dual enrollment, an in-school internship aiding in a lower level of the language class, language honors societies, SSL opportunities that allow them to practice the language, etc. To whoever posted about language learning being a waste of time, I have lots of students who feel similarly. You’re absolutely entitled to your opinion! My personal opinion is that a translation app will never be able to capture the nuance of speaking a language like a fully fluent human. Regardless of my opinion, I always share the research on language learning with my students. Learning another language has so many cognitive benefits that will generally support their academic performance, so it really is worthwhile to take advantage of world language course offerings in high school. |
Thanks - this is helpful. Kid is currently in Spanish 4 in 9th grade. Next year he could take AP Spanish language or Spanish 5. Thinking maybe Spanish 5 is best, then AP lang. in 11th and then stopping. His school does offer AP Spanish literature too but I can’t imagine he’ll want to do that, even though it sounds like that would be most impressive to colleges. He has an extremely rigorous course load anyway (STEM focused) so likely this won’t matter too much if he has one AP Foreign language under his belt? |
I think this is a great plan! |
I did not care. Nor does my child. I am extremely independent because if the support and guidance. |
This is our plan but we are considering stopping at Spanish 5 as other things interest them more. |
I think you mean “despite” the “control and direction”. Your parents controlling your choices does not make you independent. |