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OP here
Thanks for all the input. After speaking to parents of older players it seems as though this is a pattern. Lacks maturity. Would love to have my DD with a coach that is committed to the whole team, as well as the players themselves. It’s how I grew up and it works. |
Is this the recently fired VDA director? |
Fired? I thought he left for personal reasons. I guess this is why it’s not a horrible idea for a club to get out in front of prominent staff leaving. The public begins to create their own narrative. |
Wasn’t fired. The club handled it correctly. |
The parent’s child will not start for at a minimum on 4 games and the parent is on probation. Everything will be fine as the matter is now settled. |
This is not true. This makes no sense. |
| So, wasn’t fired. Doesn’t sound like personal reasons. Definitely sounds like something occurred internally. Yikes. |
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OP - anyone talking to you about ECNL when your player is U9 is BS-ing you big time.
You can see talent at U9 but thinking about what they do at U13 is like a 9th grader choosing classes for their first year of college... or a 5th grader thinking about what to wear on their first day of high scool. At U12, you can start thinking about it. If you really want to join ECNL, just join the clubs that have it at U13. If you're in maryland, join Bethesda. If your in VA, join Arlington, McLean, Loudon, VSA/PWSI, or Vienna/Braddock Road. All of these clubs have talented players on the top team in the pipeline. Your DD isn't going to walk in and be the best player, no matter what people have been telling you. There are kids there with soccer-playing parents who have been training them at home since they could walk, or signing up for HP Elite multiple times per week, along with freak early growth spurts or being naturally gifted and talented athletes... which will get them to ECNL when the time comes. If you really want it, go down that route and stop listening to the BS coach. |
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ECNL or a strong Girls Academy League program is the straightest path to playing D1.
Legit D1-potential players will get looked at during winter-spring of 10th grade. Next up are the stronger ECNL-regional players (were either cut from ECNL-national or barely not good enough) or maybe strong EDP players who stand out. They get the last pickings of the D1 spots. |
| By the way, stop thinking about playing in college for your U9 player. In all likelihood, she will take up an interest in the sport YOU played in college at some point and drop soccer when she realizes you can coach her at home. |
| You just don't know if she will even survive the "switching sports" phase... 7th-9th grade. |