Teacher here. Yes you do. unfortunately that’s our reality. She is going to practice active shooter drills no matter what so she won’t escape knowing about this. Help her survive. My own children fear school shootings because they worry about ME dying at work. I tell them every time they mention it, I will run and so will my students if we can. We are not dying in that room if there’s even the smallest window we can go. But your kid knowing to run helps. |
If my kids teacher throws my kids out a window and the kids then break their arm or leg or both in the fall, but that teacher saved their life, I will bring that teacher flowers. Possibly daily. When there's a gun, all rules stop existing. Do whatever you have to in order to LIVE. |
But they are not being taught to run. All the schools are clearly teaching and training to lock down and hide. I find this potentially problematic as well, but these situations are confusing and I am certain the schools are doing it this way on the guidance of law enforcement. |
This is interesting and important information. Since Uvalde, TX, with the parents being held outside the school against their will, and the police force not responding indoors, I’d advocate for a more nuanced approach vs. the pure lockdown. Eventually everyone in a complete lockdown becomes a sitting duck. I doubt our schools’ doors and windows will hold anyone armed and determined to enter. |
Please do! Most of the time law enforcement will already be outside long before! |
I have a 6 year old and my God this makes me sick to my stomach. That sweet child had more bravery and honor in him than any of our weak willed politicians who have left their morals at the alter of the 2nd amendment. |
they should climb out window if on first floor, with biggest kid going first to help other kids. |
This, 100000 this. They were all the epitome of cowardice after Sandy Hook, and no surprise ever since then. |
Like the police in Texas? I’m bviously it depends on the age of the child but I trust my teens to use their best judgement. |
How would you know to run and if it's safer? There could be another shooter outside. |
The challenge is that older kids are better able to run out and escape. But they are also more likely to be assumed by police to be the shooter and thus shot by first responders. And police are going to make this mistake more often with boys than girls, and with Black kids than white ones. |
There is almost never a second shooter but it’s true you can’t know. |
You can’t. The scary and desperate reality is this is a situation where the teacher and kids have to try to survive and do what they can and anybody outside of that room with them truly can’t second guess the choices they make. You hope and pray the teacher can protect them, but sometimes they can’t. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they make the choice that makes us wonder what would’ve happened in the alternative. It is not a scenario you can know what to do in and if one ever finds themselves in it, they simply make the choice they can at that time. |
The victims families have fought the good fight to no avail. It’s enraging. We outnumber the cowards. Why can’t we unify and get shit done? So many cowards walk among us. Yet, these children are not. The young girl in the doomed Uvalde classroom covered herself in her best friends blood and played dead. She survived. I posted above about 6 yo Jesse Lewis because many didn’t know for quite a while that he singlehandedly saved his classmates. In a split second decision! His classmates told the neighbor who took them into his home that Jesse told them to run.
Never have I cried as hard as that day and beyond to Uvalde. It was the first time my child saw me broken hearted hours later when I picked him up from school. He was 9 at the time and in elementary just a half block away from our home. I remember the script in my head. No matter how I revised it, I ultimately told him to be quick, listen closely to determine where the danger is (footsteps, voices, banging, gunshots) and run, break a window, grab everyone you can and run. My specific words to him— do not be a sitting duck, we will be there, EMS and all parents will be there to get you to safety. When it came out that Jesse was a hero that day, we read everything we could about him. DS: mom, my reading buddy is only 6 years old. |