Eventhough we would do fine to retire now, we have a child who has a chronic illness that will stay for life. We have to work because we want to make sure he's taking care of when we are gone. |
My wife is home all day assigning chores with a pet I am allergic to.
If I want to cough, sneeze, choke while cleaning up garage, scrubbing toilets, going to supermarket all day I could stay home. I go to office 5 days a week with a semi remote job. |
Once you have millions of dollars (FU money), it’s easier to stand up for yourself and create a position that works. I refuse to come into the office more than once a week or accept a billing requirement of more than 1400 hours. I work because I still have kids in school (so can’t travel) and I enjoy the intellectual challenge and the extra spending money. |
sounds like a healthy relationship |
There is little difference. Could you live on less? Of course but why would you? |
greed...most that I know, although they deny it. |
+1, yes all of the above |
This. A lot of the people still working work for themselves only, themselves and partners, or are successful enough working for others that they can write their own rules for working. |
This is our situation too. If OP knew us though she wouldn’t wonder why were still working, he makes it obvious. |
Some people subscribe to the "It's cheaper to keep her" philosophy. |
I have two choices divorce lose everything or put up with it. Pretty much describes 90 percent of men. Men work cause they don’t want to be home. Women stay home as they don’t want to work. Most men are older than wife yet work many years longer. At work there is freedom and respect. |
Maybe her friends work, too? |
LOL. This is the most nonsensical explanation for being lazy that I have ever heard. |
Grandfather was a stock broker, never missed a day of work. Retired at 84, for a week! He hated it and went back to work until 91 when his health finally faded. He was the type of guy that wore a suit all weekend. Couldn’t do retirement at all. Some are just built that way. IDK if he loved worked, wasn’t a feelings type, but definitely had no interest in retiring. |
A lot of entrepreneurs and small business owners love their business and want to stay involved in it even after they have made a lot of money. Which is why many of them have founder's syndrome and can't step away even after they have sold their company and made a ton and/or have the company in a good place where they can step back and still make a lot. |