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The GBRS are written by the AART, Teacher and Principal. It is done by committee. I believe the packet actually says who participated in writing the GBRSs on it. The GBRSs are not about what level your child is performing at but traits, like curiosity and novel application of knowledge. A child can be above grade level in an area and not particularly curious or engaged in learning. The GBRSs are saying that your child is doing well in school but not displaying other traits that they look for in AAP. That is not saying bad things about your child but their evaluation of your child. The schools don’t allow Teachers to discuss AAP because they know that there are parents who pressure Teachers for high GBRSs and the like because they are obsessed with AAP. The policy gives the Teachers a safe way of saying that they can’t discuss AAP as opposed to having several Parent Teacher Conferences a year discussing GBRSs and why your kid should be in AAP. It is the same principle as letters of references not being read by the person who had them written for College, Grad School and the like. Teachers need a forum to be honest. The Teacher can like your child AND not see the traits that the GBRSs cover. I doubt your child’s Teacher said anything negative about your child but the GBRS mean that they did not see the traits that FCPS is looking for in your child. You can comfort your child by letting them know that they will make new friends next year and that they can still see their old friends on playdates and the like. |
How can a kid perform above grade level and not be demonstrating traits for high GBRS? Is the teacher looking for an academically advanced student to prove their curiosity through classroom behavior - asking questions, not appear bored, make themselves noticeable, demonstrate bubbly personality, etc? |
I wouldn’t worry about that too much. My son had a low GBRS one year, the next year the teacher was asking why he wasn’t in AAP, we parent referred him, she gave him a high GBRS, and he got in. It’s unfortunate, but politics often plays a part of who gets into AAP. For example, If there school your kids attend, has something against your family, your kid may have a more difficult time getting in. |
They probably didn’t say anything mean, but they know what the committee is looking for. They can very nicely tell the committee your kid isn’t what they are looking for, if they don’t want your kid in the program. |
Parents supplement at home so the child is ahead academically but not naturally curious or motivated to learn on their own. ES math is taught in a spiral so that there is grade over lap. A parent can drill multiplication tables before they are taught at school so I child might know their multiplication tables, appearing advanced, but not actually understand why the algorithm works the way it works. A kid can pick up material quickly but not be curious enough to go and read farther ahead on an area of interest. So the kid is picking up concepts quickly but not interested in learning more on their own. Teachers notice what kids are doing when they complete their work. They see the kids who are picking up books that expand on what is being taught in class. DS had a classmate who was disruptive and annoying who was accepted into LIV, it is not aboue a kid being compliant or bubbly or well behaved. It is about what the kid is doing in class and how curious they are. |
100% although I don’t think it is a matter or want and a matter of they don’t think that a child needs AAP or belongs in AAP. And no, they are not likely to tell you to that they don’t think your kid belongs there. I had a friend who applied for her kid and told me that the GBRSs made her think that her kid was pretty average. Her kid is smart but he isn’t interested in school and isn’t particularly curious. Good kid but not a kid that screams motivated or excited to learn. He has done well in Advanced Math but complains that it is hard. He would be fine in LIV but he doesn’t really need or want LIV. |
The kids like that are the ones who may benefit the most from AAP. They're not engaged in or motivated by the regular classroom. There's a chance that more advanced materials or more challenge would cause them to become interested in school, curious, motivated, and excited to learn. In the worst case, the kid would still be fine in LIV, so nothing is really lost by giving the child the chance. |
+1 and ultimately it is fairly subjective and somewhat weighted toward the kids who outwardly demonstrate both the gifted behavior they look for AND good classroom behavior. A smart quiet kid can fall through the cracks. Anecdotally my neighbor’s son never did a second of elementary or middle school AAP and went right into a pretty full load of honors and AP classes in high school, did well, and is attending Pitt in the fall and got some scholarship $$$. |
But if the child is only “advanced” because they are being taught at home, not because they are particularly smart or interested in learning, what is the point of that child being in AAP? The child would be fine in the regular classroom and they will just slow things down in the AAP classroom, which would have a negative effect on the kids who really need to be there. |
GBRS is so biased and isn't fair especially to kids who are compliant and don't shout out answers in class or who don't want to embarrass the teacher by pointing out mistakes. My son realized the second grade teacher was not strong in math. She asked the students to write a pattern in math and he excitedly wrote 1,1,2,3,5,8,13
She marked it wrong. He tried to excitedly explain there was a tree outside school that had that sequence but got cut off. He did not get a high GBRS score despite having very high test scores on COGAT and MAP scores. I don't think it is fair that MAP scores aren't looked at when it is called advanced ACADEMIC program. |
He complains about the work in Advanced Math, it has not motivated him or caused him to be more engaged. The point is that the GBRS are looking for kids that need more then the regular classroom. Plenty of smart kids are just fine in the regular classroom. Would they be fine in LIV, probably but maybe not. It might be too much for them because they don’t want to do the work.
FCPS doesn’t use MAP scores so I don’t know what district you are discussing. I am guessing MCPS and I have no clue how their advanced program works. That said, DS is a quiet and compliant and had no issue with getting good GBRSs. I would guess that there are a good number of well behaved, compliant kids in AAP. |
If a kid is above grade level, it makes no sense to teach them on-grade level content. It doesn't matter why or how the kid is above grade level. Also, teachers don't really know how much the child is being supplemented at home. Teachers also aren't necessarily great at determining how motivated the child is. If a child has the test scores and is advanced, then FCPS should err on the side of inclusion into advanced academics. There shouldn't ever be an issue of slowing things down in the AAP classroom. The teachers should stick to the appropriate AAP pacing, and let the kids who can't handle it drop back to gen ed. In my experience, the biggest culprits in slowing down the AAP classroom were the high GBRS but lower test score kids. |
But that should be the parents' call and not the decision of a potentially biased teacher. My kid had low scores for creativity and motivation in their 2nd grade GBRS. In 3rd grade, the teacher was perplexed that my kid wasn't in AAP and gave a perfect GBRS. My kid sailed through AAP and was much more creative and motivated when in an environment conducive to that. |