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What your endo says doesn’t make sense? Why give him meds just to give him meds? You have been giving him ADHD meds since 2nd grade. That is most likely the cause of delayed puberty and height. So many boys are affected. Kids at my boys school now ask boys in 9th and 10th grade who haven’t gone through puberty if they have ADHD. |
My DS had this and does not have ADHD and does not take meds of any kind. There have always been boys like this. My DS finally started growing big time age 14.5/15 and grew very quickly. Around 2yrs behind in bone age. Endo followed him did not recommend any treatment/growth hormones. |
Of course there have always been boys like this but now there are MORE boys like this because MORE boys are taking ADHD meds. I am still upset I was never warned about this side effect! |
Oh sure- yes, sorry. Granted I wasn’t paying all that much attention to the boys when growing up, but if anything, they seemed to go through puberty a bit later than boys do now?? Seems like nearly all (with a few stragglers like my son) of my son’s friends were largely done growing in height by 14-15 and most of them filled out by then as well (making my own DS look even more out of place). I remember so many boys being scrawny well into high school when I was growing up. But maybe we see what we want to see? I wonder if there have been any studies on this…. |
| Have him evaluated for celiac disease. He may not be absorbing the nutrients he needs. |
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My son was very late to hit puberty and didn’t hit his growth spurt until 16. (His voice also didn’t change until then and he didn’t grow under arm or leg hair until then, either.)
Until about age 12 he always was on the tall side and then was significantly shorter than everyone else as most of the other boys were in the throes of puberty. I went to the ped with our concerns and she assured me he was a late bloomer. He’s now 18 and 6’5” tall (and still growing it seems) and has committed to a D1 school to play a sport next fall. |
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It is absurd than boys with no health issues have to go through shots just to protect their mental health because society doesn’t like late bloomers.
And I am saying this as a mother of a 14 yo that just hit 5’3 after all middle school being A LOT shorter than his peers, so I get it. But no way I am doing testosterone, even if they are safe. He doesn’t need those shots. |
So true. My late bloomer DS (no health issue- just late) had a really rough time. |
| Do boys need to go off ADHD meds in their teen years to grow or do they just start growing a few years later? |
Yep these boys are invisible. Everyone marvels over how tall the boys have gotten, growing like a weed, what are you feeding him? etc like it’s a major personal accomplishment and they straight up ignore the boys who haven’t gotten there yet. |
Can I ask what sport, and how he managed to hang in there during the tiny years? My oldest was a very late bloomer and had to switch to track and cross country in HS- no way was he making any cut sports teams at his size (after playing club basketball and travel baseball for years). Ended up 6’2”. My younger DS is now 14 and is blooming “on time” but his smaller friends all started getting benched and/or cut last year (soccer and baseball). I really feel for them. |
I also think puberty blockers for early puberty have their own risks and have decided not to give to my kids, they are normal height, though short. |
Peers often treat them as “little kids” too. |
| seems to me that there has been a shift not only in timing of puberty but an increase in variance. once folks adjust, folks will avoid assuming who will be tall, making such comments. |