| If its more than 4 hour drive, its a vacation home not a pied de terre. |
I fly every week from Boston to my DC pied de terre. It is absolutely not a vacation home. It is a one hour flight. There are several other people in my building who do the same thing. |
I actually think it is fine to dislike that. But realize that this probably means that a long term relationship with someone in this family is probably not a good fit for you. Wealthy people invest instead of rent. It isn't always the easiest lifestyle despite how glamorous it may seem. |
Isn't it a significant expense to book flights, get taxi to and from airport and on top of that, flight booking, cancellation and delay issues. I doubt many 70 year old would be able to do it. |