I've lived in South Carolina and now live in the DMV. There is racism here, but no where near the level there. Comments and actions that your get you expelled or fired and ostracized here are regular occurrences there 2 |
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A friend's kid - normal jocky white guy from a Bethesda HS - matriculated at USC/Columbia with some classmates five years ago. Couldn't stand it -- the parochialism, the race attitudes, the antiquated dated scene, the country club anti-semitism (said he never felt Jewish until he went to USC). He focussed on keeping his grades up and transferred after his freshman year to Syracuse, where he spent three really happy years (and was in a fraternity at Syracuse, so it's not like he's some social justice warrior).
To each their own, but be careful not to automatically buy into the "everyone from the DMV is going to southern flagships now" hype you see on this site. It can be a bigger culture shock that one expects or is prepared for. South Carolina might not be quite as "southern" as it used to be, but the DMV is also a lot more northeastern than it used to be. |
I live in not so great FCPS pyramid and have noticed a lot more kids matriculating to Southern Flagships. I know a few families with kids there now or heading there next fall and money is the overwhelming reason. Those schools approach free for a good student. Meanwhile, UVA and W&M are pushing 40k a year in state. |
Heh. You just described many of the "progressives" I know. |
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You think? For a certain subset of this site no Southern school is acceptable. But I guess it gives the "morally superior" DMV types the opportunity to beat their chest...oh well. |
it is already over 40K at UVA , 45.88K all-in to be exact for in-state, if your kid is in School of Engineering or Applied Sciences. |
Go away double-space all-caps troll |
Very rational and on point. I personally would never ever send my kids to a school in a red state. That is my choice. Nor would I even send my kid to a school like Liberty or Hillsdale. Or a for-profit just like you. And you are right it is expensive to send a kid to USC actually absurdly expensive for a state school OOS. I have been to USC for some football games why anyone sends their kid OOS for that I don't get it. |
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The only reasons I’m really considering South Carolina from out of state is:
1) my kid might qualify for in-state tuition, based on gpa and test scores, and 2) they might be able to continue with their D1 level sport Also, it seems like the type of atmosphere they would enjoy, and also, their business program a strong, and that’s what my child would major in |
Didn't know about this possibility. Mind sharing what those cut-offs are? Couldn't find it on their website. We are considering U-SC for our junior and this option may sweeten the deal. |
I never once stated that my son heard an entire student body use the n word. His roommate is from SC and is very liberal. Jokes about we eat pimento cheese but never Palmetto cheese. But also my son hears the n word all the time, like it NBD for many students. The racist comments are something he has never seen. BTW my kids went to a conservative Catholic school and he never heard this much racism. |
Regret no. Is it as great as he hoped, no. But I thinks it’s unfair to only get my feedback on that because he is a 2020 kid and I feel that year was robbed of many normal college experiences. Everywhere I ho if I wear a gamecock anything somebody tells me they went there and lived it. My H is in finance and many gamecocks work there. I’d say most of his problems were COVID related. I think the racism is educational… not just some thing he’s heard about in school or from us, it’s actually real. The university is liberal though. The governor and the president of the school sued each other over COVID masks and online school. There were racist protestors on campus (it’s a public school so they could not really kick them out) and the students and the band circled them to drowned out their racist chants. The president quickly condemned it. I think he dislikes the frat atmosphere more than he thought he would. But he likes the school, the weather, golfing, the food, football, food and he’s finally getting into some clubs. Did I mention the food, lol. They have food street festivals every Saturday and the food is multicultural not just southern. |
I’m the pp who asked about regrets and really appreciate your thoughtful response. I think we were expecting more of the stereotype on our tour, but ended up really surprised, and now it’s a top choice based on multiple factors (merit aid, size, location, specific programs offered). The school, and the community around it, felt quite diverse and open. My DC is not looking to be in a liberal bubble but i want them to dig a bit deeper. I’m sure Covid presented a lot of challenges. I’m glad your DS is settling into a good groove! |
Both of my friend's sisters did this program at SC. One did Sports Management and I am not sure what the other one did. I think thy both liked the school. They were both fairly liberal kids from Bethesda. My brother went to SC (15 plus years ago). We helped him move in to his dorm in August and I have to say the SC/Columbia at that time of year felt like the hottest place on earth!!
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