Because it's confirmed by the schools' kid-run instagrams. And confirmed by my kid and their friends. And confirmed by the parents of seniors I talk to at sports games. And the parents that were at a school event that I was at yesterday (several of whom have talk to the college counseling office and even HOS about this) And by my friend who runs a college consulting business in NW. Sure, there may be a few unconnected kids slipping through entirely under the radar but in these tight-knit school communities it's really, really unlikely. There are a lot of parents concerned about this. I can't seem to get away from chatter about it wherever I go and I'm not the one starting the conversations. |
I went to UVA and the relatively nice weather had a HUGE impact on my life! Hiking in the spring, studying outside, many games of frisbee/tag football, outdoor concerts, not to mention the outdoor parties and Foxfield. I DID spend a lot of time outdoors in college, and I would want the same for my kids. But I don't ski and hate the cold with the fury of a thousand suns, so this is a big part of quality of life for me. Glad you found a good match for you if the cold isn't a big deal to you, but it certainly is for other people! |
| And why are you assuming legacies are dumb?? Most of these kids are WAY overqualified to attend relative to their parents-this isn’t late 80’s or 90’s admissions anymore. Stupid assumption. |
This is true. Big3 parent. Alum of a "top Ivy" or whatever they call it and not a VIP alum. Just a good alum who donates a bit each year. Kid was 4.0 from a big 3, SCEA/ED, and was flat rejected (this is one of the Ivies that started rejecting instead of deferring most) Just facts. |
BTW this is not just DMV area top private schools. I've spoke to friends in NYC, Houston, LA - same everywhere. The institutional mandates at Top Ivies (and everywhere mostly) have changed, The private school "advantage" if there was one is gone. The reason to send your kid to these $50k schools is not to juice Princeton/Harvard odds but that you think that their learning style and access to resources will be better w/ smaller class size etc. It makes the value equation certainly worth thinking through and I would personally not have sent my kids to our Big3 if I knew when we applied in 6th grade where the world would be 6 years later in terms of colleges' priorities/test optional etc. At some schools - the top flagship states - the private school thing is now a disadvantage b/c of weighted GPA calc and fact that AP course work is scarce now (long thread on this last week). The education kids have gotten at Big3 has been amazing - especially in humanities for our kids, less so STEM - BUT i truly cant say that that it's been worth that amount of money - if the lens was solely college admissions which is not their only mission but surely has to be considered one of the primary missions of these schools whether they want to admit it or not |
Let me know how many very smart, 4.0/99th percentile ssat 8th graders from MD/VA public middle schools were admitted to your child’s high school. Zero, or close to it. |
This is true, in my year at Princeton (90s), each Princeton class had 4 to 7 St Albans kids, 3 to 4 NCS kids, 1 to 3 Landon kids. |
It is no doubt a good school, but a lot of the interest in Michigan is driven by the large number of alumni in the area. |
Have heard the same from my senior kid at a Big3 - 100% have been VIP Legacy, URM, athletic recruits this year. There is one at our school who has not reported on insta and even those are in that category of VIP legacy, URM etc BTW what outside CC from NYC told me is meaningful legacy donor is gifts of at least $1m and more likely $5m!! gulp. |
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I have a kid who is a senior and I am going on their acceptances. Maybe our kids go to different schools. |
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So, my kid at one of these so-called schools would say that, this year, many of the legacy kids are also the top students. But I also know of at least 3 kids who got into either USNWR T20 or top SLACs at my kid's school with no hook. I know of legacy kids who got into T20 schools too, but they had perfect scores and are universally known as very smart.
I definitely know of deferred kids as well (both legacy and non-legacy) but my hunch is it will shake out RD. |
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Yes-parents please come back in April and tell some stories of EA deferrals that become acceptances, esp for legacies who are well qualified (and by that I mean top GPA and test scores because it does seem like test scores are still valued in Ann Arbor).
And of course…GO BLUE!!! |
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It is not all doom and gloom. Many kids get into excellent schools from private.
You can’t just look at top ivy results. I bet more than a few kids got into Cornell for example |
No, not unconnected kids. At my kid's Big3 there was one Ivy admit (of any kind) last year for an unconnected kid. |