I cannot imagine given the staff that they are looking at race at all. But, many of us often would never think to even apply. I looked at it for my child, ruled it out thinking no way, reached out just out of curiosity and they encouraged us to apply, talked me through it all and my child got in. All the staff we have dealt with have gone above and beyond for our family regularly and really responsive. We are not Asian. I think the cost is a huge issue although they have financial aid between the orchestra costs and the private lesson requirements it really adds up. Plus, you have to pay extra for the concerts. |
I think you make a good point here. As for the different experiences, I think when people are quite serious about anything, be it strings, or theatre, or sports, there are going to be some people who are really jealous or competitive in a bad way. On the whole though, we have had a good experience in the strings community, and my daughter is one of these Asian kids who started young. |
I'm not the one that posted about MCYO being toxic, but that's what I've heard from 3 separate kids in DD's studio, all of whom do well for themselves. Two are older, and have said that they no longer encounter it, at the upper levels. I have NOT heard that there is discrimination; pretty much all YO have a higher number of East Asians than anyone else, and that's a priorities thing, and not anything else, IMO (we're not East Asian). What I have heard of is kids speaking along the lines of "they're ONLY a second violin", like that's some sort of character flaw. Or 'You only practice two hours a day? I practice 4-6 hours. You can't be good if you don't practice that much', that sort of talk. What I have heard of AY is along similar lines. Snootiness. |
It is interesting that there seems to be such a focus on violin over other instruments. I am not a music person but as an outsider I don't understand why. My kid chose a difficult brass instrument and I think it worked out really well for him. Not a lot of kids play it so the orchestras are happy he is trying out and they are looking for a reason to take him (vs looking for a reason to reject him because they have so many kids playing his instrument). |
All the lower level orchestras are strings only, of which, violin is the dominant instrument (in sheer numbers). Usually, by the time kids are old/skilled enough to be playing in full orchestras, all the petty nonsense is behind them. |
That’s in any sport or music. It’s kids being kids. Mine never experienced that. All the kids in the instrument support and help each other. |
Kids are annoying and they are act this way whether they are in sports or music. It is our jobs as parents to tell them to cut it out. |
I’m actually curious… by around the age I think the OP described (11?) are many of the string players in MCYO practicing 2 or more hrs per day? That is a lot for an upper elementary-aged child! |
if you pick a less common instrument you can avoid a lot of it altogether. |
There definitely are kids that are that committed to their instruments by that age (and younger). Don’t know how well represented they are in any YOs. Mine practices an hour daily, but between school orchestra, YO, and lessons, ends up playing a lot more. Her longest days are about 5 hours of music. |
The kid chose the instrument. We avoid it by having her play in one of the lesser orchestras. It’s been a great experience for her. |
But are the kids who start violin when they super young really choosing it? |
I too have wondered why Asian kids focus so heavily on piano and violin. You would think a few more would try horn or tuba or bassoon, all of which are desperate to find players. It’s a lot easier to get a bassoon spot at an Ivy League orchestra than it is a violin spot.
My kid plays the French horn and she has really benefited from the lack of competition. She has a really good ear (honed through piano lessons and choir from a young age), and loves playing, but it’s also nice that it’s easier to be a “star” in her realm. To be a star violinist takes at least 2 hrs of practice a day by middle school and then more from then on. Not so for the more obscure instruments. |
I think the reason is that Asian parents value what kids learn from early music training as much as or more than the music or instrument - the violin is difficult because it requires a lot of concentration and mental effort but physically is easy to play. Woodwind instruments require breath control, embouchure, etc. There are fractional violins and cellos for young children but for woodwind instruments, a child needs to be nearly full grown to be able to start playing it. Soprano recorders are the notable exception, fwiw. So a child can start violin very young and learn discipline and also learn to play nice music with relaxation while a child must be older to start French horn or bassoon or flute. Then after years of practice, they learn to play with relaxation, but physically, it is more demanding. |
Just curious how much MCYO tuition is? I can't find anything on their website on tuition fees. Is it true the audience pays $10 a ticket for the concerts? |