So in your mind, Fred and Daphne will still be chaste heterosexuals - but clearly now that Velma is out she'll basically be having porn because that's what it means for a character not to be heterosexual? What if she's exactly the same as she was, only now we know she's gay. Does that make you feel funny in your private parts? |
| The problem with this is that it actually enforces dumb gender stereotypes. Now, if Velma was a regular hetero girl who just happened to look butch and not be a blonde, that would be the real inspiration. But now of course, if you're not a blond bimbo, you must be LGBTQ. |
This is why Identity Politics should be out of K-8 schools, shows and marketing. Can’t wear pink- don’t want to be a girl stereotype. Can have short hair- don’t want to be butch stereotype. Can’t be sporty- you must want to be a boy. Can’t like art- you must be a psycho mixed gender poly freak. |
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And the schools kick off each class discussion with just that- what’s the stereotype of a mathematician, a fast runner, a scientist, a painter?
This does not end well. |
What? Now because half the swim team has bibs they all have ti explain their not Bi?? |
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All the people saying "it never occurred to ME she could be queer" might as well be saying "Well, *I* never noticed there weren't any black characters!" Tell me you were represented without realizing you're announcing you were represented. Representation "doesn't matter" to you because you never faced a world without it.
If Fred and Daphne being a couple is not age inappropriate, then Velma being gay is not age inappropriate. Gay people exist. Your kids are dealing with it pretty well, your tantrums notwithstanding. |
But now starting say age 7 you can explore so much more |
For representation. Representation matters more than you'll ever know if you're part of a marginalized community. I'm a lesbian. I grew up without any gay TV characters for most of my childhood. It just reinforced the idea that gay = bad and that homosexuality should be hidden. Ellen came out in 1994 when I was 12. I knew at 12 that I was 100% different than my peers because my crushes weren't on boys in my class, but on my best female friends. I felt so ashamed and broken because I was different and I didn't understand why. I thought gay only applied to men. It never occurred to me that a woman could also be gay or that I was gay. I remember my parents discussing Ellen's coming out at the dinner table and explaining it to me and siblings and as we asked questions, and it was like a literal lightbulb went off for me... holy sh!t! I liked girls the way Ellen liked girls and that meant I was a lesbian. I wanted to cry when I realized I wasn't broken as a person, I was just different and simply didn't know the proper name because I'd never been taught. But then all the backlash happened (and honestly, not everything my parents had to say about Ellen was great, either), and again, I knew that I had to keep that newfound information about myself secret. Because all around me I saw people hating on her for being who she was as a person. Even when there was a lesbian couple on a TV show, it was never really the main character or the main storyline. The relationships were often played out with a negative connotation, too... gay character spontaneously planting a kiss on a straight female co-worker, gay character spontaneously planting a kiss on a straight female friend, a seemingly straight young character escaping an abusive relationship into the arms of a much older lesbian character, married wife & mom getting kissed by gay friend, etc. Straight people had tons of happy couples on TV and gays had 10-minute blurbs of messy relationships, secretive relationships, and lots of spontaneous kisses on (non-consenting) parties. |
No, and I find that offensive. My point is that sexual identity for ALL the characters on this specific show, since it was designed for young kids and never involved anything remotely sexual, should be moot. I don’t think Fred or Daphne should be declared heterosexual. I don’t think Velma should be declared homosexual. I think they should all just continue to be a bunch of platonic friends solving mysteries. |
How woke!! They should come to the elementary school camping trip in May where everyone is encouraged to try kissing everyone to find out what gender and orientation they like best that day. Little kids love this literal stuff! And the mixed gender/ no gender tents. Ain’t america great! Such cutting edge educations and cartoons. |
My kid left their genders identity class lesson and Jazz Jennings book reading believing (a) that boys could be girls and have babies, and (b) 1/3 of the population is male, female and nonbinary (actually he couldn’t pronounce the word but we gathered that’s what was covered). Good stuff. Total mass confusion and no context. |
So in your mind, what % of the time should a cartoon show be lgbtqia? What % of the characters? What % of the school assemblies? % books read to classroom? % of the plot line or characters or main characters? |
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We knew. Only difference back then was the bible thumpers including Daphne in their 🙏🏻
Be blessed Dcum. |
> 0% Why is that so hard to understand? Would you be ok with 100% LGBTQ characters on all shows? You seem to be fine with 100% straight characters. What about 100% white male characters? 100% Muslim? Or must all characters check the boxes that make you comfortable? |
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Many of us dream about the day when our kids see a gay character on TV and think nothing of it. Just like they think nothing of seeing characters with different skin colors and physical abilities. But that only happens if they actually do see gay characters on TV.
Do you censor children’s shows that have black characters or characters who use wheelchairs - until they can “understand” those differences? Or are those shows OK because you’re not afraid they’ll turn your kid black or paraplegic? |