That’s the hard part for us. Typical UMC family living in a HCOL area with young kids. We are doing fine financially but also feel the difference majorly in cash flow and our savings are all tied up in the market and retirement. If we were wealthy already it wouldn’t matter so there have been a lot of conversations. We can do it and ride it out but it means cutting back from our lifestyle in several ways. |
Say your options are worthless. What happens next? Will you be mad at DH? If it is no biggie, and you all just move onto next opportunity, and can manage for several years (Uber was private for a decade for instance) at lower income, not sure what your problem is. No one can tell you what his shares will really be worth, but unless there is a secondary market right now they are worth $0. |
| Haven’t seen recent startups giving double digit employees $M option grands, that’s some dot.com nostalgia. |
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Shopify, a profitable tech darling, is laying off people.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32968704 |
Sounds like they are going through a round C? I would wait until they finish that round before you say they have no issues. If not, again, what is the runway? |
+1 Reasonable general advice. OP: Your risk tolerance should place an emphasis on the fact that your husband supports the family and that you have several young children. |
OP is an elementary school teacher, I don't think DH is sharing this information with her, and she just wants to hear that because all these investors are interested, and they have already had a "full price offer" there is no risk (I think her DH is selling her this). As long as your DH is straight with you (they had an offer but went with more financing (growth?), they are profitable, he is not going to be laid off), I'm confident you will be a millionaire by 2024 (since recessions average length is 15 months, so even if we enter one today, that will be the end and I'm sure they will jump at an exit) Congrats and hang in there! |