Then perhaps you could have helped find a way to get her son to soccer games. Teams could make more efforts to ensure all students have the opportunity and ability to participate. Nevertheless, this is different from getting to school every day. Soccer means different practice schedules and game schedules on different nights/weekends in different locations. We're talking about getting to their assigned school every day, same hours, and for something that takes priority over soccer for which the "apartment dwellers without cars" are going to focus on more than the extras. |
Clearly you have an issue with central office - just because you don't get a bus? It's unfortunate this is "inconvenient" for you. All of us in bus zones just can't imagine life with inconveniences. Please let us know how we can all help you get your kid to school. |
Honey, families living farther than a mile and a half are IN THE BUS ZONE. Good gracious - how bad are you going to feel when your kid is in high school and those kids living even farther from you are walking TWO full miles to school. |
Not the person you're asking, but: We lived .9 miles to elementary school - technically walk zone; but got a bus because of a very major road that had to be crossed by very young kids and you're not going to send buses for only the K-3rd graders. An 11 year old is older and the walk zone increases accordingly, as it will again for your 14 y/o 9th grader. They can walk, they can bike, they can find a public bus route that eventually gets them there (though I'd think walking would be far safer). Our middle schoolers walked about .7mile. Others, including friends of our kids, walked a 1.5-2m because they lived on the very edge of the walk zone, even though the neighborhood's bus stop was literally one block away from their house. Others were driven by parents - hence the drop-off lines/zones established at every school. LOTS of them rode their bikes. Now, we fortunately live just inside the high school bus zone; but we see kids the next neighborhood over walking hilly routes in all kinds of weather carrying instruments and sports equipment to and from the school. Another family we know had a daughter bicycling with lacross sticks and everything else needed for school almost 2 miles. At what point do you believe it's ok for a person to have some responsibility and not be 100% taken care of? |
Don't forget about the kids waiting at the bus stop for the bus that never comes. Or the bus that's 20 minutes late and gets them to school late. |
My daughter's favorite thing about middle school was not having to ride the bus anymore! |
Well to be fair it's only trashy white people who even bother to try and use equity issues and discuss them. I have never seen or heard any POC people pushing for change. There is even a group called Black parents of Arlington but the only thing they have ever done is published a letter way too late about some change and how it would negatively impact POC students - and they were right and it was good they published a letter. But it would be nice to see them do much more and push way more. They should come up with Saturday schools' like parents do in Fairfax county. |
Yep. Only trashy white people care about poverty and injustice. Gives them a redeeming quality. ![]() |
Why can't she bike? |
Maybe your daughter can wait for the farther-out apartment kids to make it to her and walk with them. Or get a ride from someone else who drives. Not one single other middle schooler anywhere near you? Really? Define "near," please. |
Sorry OP, but there are tons of middle school kids (including my own) walking over a mile to school in Arlington and they are just fine. We are 1.2 miles away, up and over a fairly big hill. I tell her that she will be able to tell her kids that she walked to school uphill both ways. I only drive my kid to school if they need to take something heavy with them, which is RARE. Does she complain sometimes? Sure, but that's what middle schoolers do. If kids have enough energy to run around soccer fields for hours at a time, they have enough energy to walk a mile to school. You mention safety - are there sidewalks? Have you taught your kid how to cross a a street, use crosswalks, look out for traffic, walk as far from the edge of the road as possible? |
I can't believe so many people in this thread, when given a choice between central office admins who don't see a kid all day and bus drivers, choose the central office. My kid's a walker by the way. |
You seem to assume OP works for the Democratic Party. Why? |
Exactly. I would choose literally anything (more band instruments, more art supplies, more lunch staff...ANYTHING) over central office staff. |
Older people don't want to be bus drivers because the kids are not well behaved. My kids were both bus patrols and some of the stories they would tell me about how some kids behaved badly on the bus were just nuts. Throwing things, cursing the bus driver en route, threatening other students, stealing, and on and on. It's not the pay, it's the behavior of the students. There isn't enough money to make older people take on that level of liability. |