That’s just unfair then. Kids lie about race. I know kids who have lied about race. How is that okay? And how is it okay to keep using race to admit or deny someone? |
+1 |
The fact is test prep/essay prep/paid consultants are a part of the college process for many. Yes, it gives an unfair advantage to those who can't afford it (or live in a more rural area where this isn't readily available). However, as with life in general not everything is fair. It's not fair to some that we live in one of the best school districts in the state; right there my kid has a leg up compared to 90%+ of the kids applying to colleges and certainly over the kid who goes to one of the worst districts, where the kid worries about walking to school safely, where dinner will come from, or manages school work while having to watch siblings or work 20+ hours per week just to help with food and rent. Some people will always have an advantage. However, I'm not going to not have my kid do test prep or have an essay consultant/college counselor just because others can not afford it. What I will do is include in charities in my charitable donations that do help with reaching kids who aren't as lucky as mine---for example: we donate to a locale charity that helps provide after school structure to kids thru sports (mainly soccer) and along with that they get tutoring/STEM guidance/learn programming/etc. So a well rounded program that helps reach kids who might otherwise not have these advantages. The solution is not to take away from the "haves" just to even stuff out. It's better to help provide better resources for as many as possible. I do wish colleges didn't put so much emphasis on the SAT/ACT. But even without those, most kids who have access to test prep/college counselors are also attending Better schools since ES. So they have access to 30+ AP tests (where some schools only have a few or none). And those kids are surrounded largely by kids who are driven and headed to a 2 year or 4 year college (my district is over 90%). Versus kids in a district where only 25-30% head to a college. So privileged kids are privileged on many levels. And we can't really focus on taking away all those privileges as a solution. |
| What do kids lie about on college applications? Is it common to lie on applications? |
| In the long run, this post is barking up the wrong tree. You are correct that admissions is a mess - and where you will see this most clearly is when your kid goes to get a job. All of the big high-paying companies have realized that because of all of the padding, coaching, fake internships etc. employers no longer assume that graduates of top schools equate to top employees. Today's interview process at top firms is personality test and case study oriented and incredibly grueling. It doesn't seem to matter where you go to school nearly as much as what your grades and HR tests and personality scores are. It's eye opening. |
So funny that you think you know kids are “lying “ and adcoms do not. They do this for a living you know. What could they possibly lie about that would make a difference? |
amen! |
I hope you meant that ironically! |
So, about those personality tests. My son applied for an internship at a certain company twice - as a sophomore and as a junior, but did not get a call back after that test. He applied for a job with them when he was a senior, and when he took the test again, he gave them answers that he said were worthy of a sociopath. He got an interview and then a job offer. He did not take it, but the whole process was very amusing. |
This makes me so sad for our country. Liars and cheaters rewarded with fancy degrees and firms hiring sociopaths. Glad your son had the decency to turn them down. |
Quite a bit more. If it also had the effect of discouraging applications, all the better. Have a waiver for truly low income kids and make the others all think hard about where they might really like to go. The schools won’t do that, of course, because they love their low admission rates. They’d rather encourage more apps and then whine about how they don’t have the resources to actually look at them. |
While I havent read this whole thread yet, I will say that I agree with this poster. Someone told me recently that college don't want to read "what I overcame" essays from white/middle class + kids. Yet some (many) of those kids HAVE overcome something (for example, a HUGE number of kids at my kids' school had significant, season ending, sports injuries this year, which really sucks, even if not forever). So does moving, having a crappy family life, all kinds of things. It seems to me like the "holistic" admissions process isn't looking to see the whole story for all applicants. |
| Let me summarize - why isn’t your admissions criteria designed to value the exact things my kid has? |
+1 I’d pay $250 an application if it meant we didn’t have to submit 15 and cross our fingers. Probably end up costing me the same in the end but it could be a more thoughtful process for everyone. |
Yep, submit that 23andme score along the SAT. Who is to say,which one is more important to admissions? Also, what happens if you test optional? With one? Or the other? Or both??? |