Well Ivies are pretty clear that character matters, maybe the fact that your kid has so little ethics that he’d gossip about someone he tutors shone through in his application. |
I’d like to abolish athletic preference in admissions, especially for sports that don’t generate revenue. |
Gimme a break. My kid talked to me about it. And, as I mentioned, he was happy for the kid - that is why he brought it up to me. Please read more carefully. |
| I was admitted to HYPS on so-called "academic merit" and you know what? Many of the recruited athletes in my classes were getting just as good if not better grades than me. They have elite work ethic and time management skills so don't sound surprised that it often spills over to studying too. Stop it with the stereotypes. |
No one is stereotyping! You need to read these full threads. please don't comment on something if you haven't read the whole exchange. |
| Re the athletic hook, this year my DC's "big 3" there is NO overlap between the students who are recruited athletes and the students who are graduating "cum laude" (the top 20% of the class). |
| Sorry for the typo -- "at my DC's Big Three" |
| I don't know about all the Ivies but Dartmouth has SIGNIFICANTLY easier admissions for lacrosse and basketball. The outliers are very obvious on our Big 5 school Naviance. |
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I have lower school but the grooming is real. Kids in fencing since age 5, cello since age 4, goalie camps for soccer or lax since age 6, math tutors every year, soccer year round.
Oh and activism, that has to be a given for Ivy League now. It good enough to volunteer, you must lead protests, challenge authority, fight for what’s right. |
NP. Even students with non-athletic extracurriculars like music, chess, robotics are shut out. Sports are king apparently. No wonder parents push their kids so much from a young age. |
Colleges define “hooks” based on what they want. I have no dog in this fight (my DCs are all unhooked). I understand your frustration with the college admissions process but it’s wrong to throw shade at “hooked” applicants using bits and pieces of information you may have about them. BTW cum laude at my DCs Big 3 isn’t a very good measuring stick to assess who “deserved” to get in somewhere and who didn’t. It’s based on 2.5/4 years worth of grades, includes coursework taken elsewhere (which isn’t included on the official transcripts) and doesn’t differentiate between difficulty of coursework taken (no weighted grades). Same goes for the valedictorian (only based on 2 yrs of grades). The school chooses how to award honors with the criteria they want - just as colleges assess applicants using whatever formula they want to use. Neither is more “fair” than the other. |
| If u think big 3 are bad, Maret is an abomination. As in, people wouldn’t apply if they knew the results. |
So your Big 3 doesn't teach particularly well. That is to be expected. |
| So where do the unhooked kids from Maret end up attending? |