Ugh. I love these arguments that kids survive wars and turn out “just fine”, so we should mask toddlers indefinitely for zero benefit. Kids who live through wars are NOT fine, btw. |
My 3 year old is very happy to not be wearing a mask. And no, we haven't been telling her masks are bad. She figured out all by herself that it's uncomfortable, and as her parents, we listened. |
DP- because uprooting a child like that also has its drawbacks. I’m willing to be that if I have my 4yo the choice between staying with her friends/teachers while continuing to wear a mask vs. a new daycare (or nanny with no other kids) with no masks, she’d choose the former. |
People can hold multiple thoughts in their head at once. It may be hard for you, but others can care about all of those things— and more. |
Yeah this is pretty much of equal, if not more, concern to me. The masking for 2 year olds (!!), the crazy quarantining…these are tremendous disruptions in my life. If we had treated this more like another state or country, where we actually prioritized the needs of small children and families, I’d feel differently. |
+1 I have friends and family in other countries and none of them are chomping at the bit for an under-5 vaccine. Many of them have kids under 12 and have not vaccinated them yet, not because they don't want to but because many countries don't even recommend vaccines for that age group unless they are in a high risk group or live with someone who is a immunocompromised. It's just a totally different attitude about vaccines for kids, even though all the adults in question are vaccinated. And I think the reason why is that none of them have lived with such lengthy school closures, or masking of 2 and 3 year olds, or these intense quarantines for every positive case. Some of these countries did more restrictive lockdowns in response to the initial wave and the subsequent surges, but some didn't. And importantly, those lockdowns were imposed on everyone equally (so unvaccinated kids weren't uniquely imposed on) and were supported by other government action to ease some of the burden. In the US we've heavily burdened families with young kids without offering much in the way of support, and I think it makes people desperate for a silver bullet that will relieve them of this burden. I wish vaccines WERE that silver bullet, but they clearly aren't. The real silver bullet is admitting that Covid is not that dangerous for very young kids, and also recognizing that while kids might spread Covid to adults, vaccines work pretty well for adults. We'll never lower risk to zero, but most children in this country could be living fairly normal lives without being exposed to serious risks or contributing much to overall risk to adults. But we're still so far from accepting this. Everyone is so out of whack. |
| I will most likely not give my toddlers this vaccine until it’s been out for a few years. I’m ok with myself being a Guinea pig, but not my kids. Besides, their risk is like .00001% fatality rate or something extremely low. We’ll be ok. |
plus 1. People in this area are just annoying. Your kids are fine. Let them be kids |
plus a million and I’m a democrat |
Our daycare is no longer requiring masks but nearly everyone (kids, teachers) are still masking anyway. My 3yo is literally the only one in their class not wearing one. So yay more comfortable for them I guess but I always felt the bigger downside was not being able to see the faces of others. At least they take them off for eating and outside play. This are is just so weird though. |
| I don’t gamble w my kids health, very much looking fwd to 4 and 2 yr old being vaxed —Doctor |
Okay Doctor. Do you think your unvaxxed 4 and 2 year olds are more at risk from COVID than a vaccinated and boosted adult? |
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My elderly parents haven’t met my youngest child because of the risk of covid. We want to get them vaxxed asap.
And another reason we want them to get vaccinated is to lower the possibility of long term side effects. We are still leaning about what covid does to the brain but some studies show a loss of gray matter and it’s some worrisome stuff. I don’t want MY kids to be Guinea pigs for a new virus. If, god forbid, they get Parkinson’s in midlife and it turns out it was due to covid, they’ll be pissed we didn’t suffer a little more to protect them. |
How old is your youngest child? |
Spoiler alert. Vaccinated people get Covid too. Your parents could die tomorrow. FFS, let them meet your baby. |