Did something change in the last 20 years? Because that’s exactly what I was taught in public school. |
Exactly. That's what we learned in school. Why can't our kids learn that too? |
Sounds like the outcomes to which you refer are standardized test scores. Although they are one way to measure academic achievement, they do not measure well-being and many other indicators of stability and preparedness for life. As I teacher I can tell you that a larger classroom of cooperative students (as in, they have stable home lives and healthy-enough brains to function well in a classroom) can learn as much as a smaller group. Problem is, the larger the group the more likely you are to have up to several students who do not have the skills or brain health to cooperate and function well. Students who disrupt or need a lot more of the teachers energy/attention make it difficult to progress. With an explosion in mental health needs and with some communities where education isn’t highly valued (with respect for teachers and the rights of others modeled and reinforced by parents) there are far too many students who are not able to function well. An effective teacher can overcome some of these issues by providing a LOT of structure, positive reinforcement, and care for each individual. But we don’t seem to value teachers as much in this country as is more typical inAsian countries. That makes a huge difference. |
Ding ding ding! The above sums it up. - same teacher as last post |
+1 on respect for teachers. In my Asian (Indian) family it would be unacceptable to ignore or demean your teacher unless they are saying something harmful. If you don’t like what they are saying/doing then you come home and tell your parents and we figure out next steps. But you *do not* disrespect them in front of your classmates except in the most extreme of situations. |
| ^ And we’ve never had an extreme situation come up for either kid. It’s theoretical at this point. Btw, my kids are allowed to freely argue with me (to an extent). |
This. I think it every time people tout the system they grew up with. They have forgotten people like my cousins (bright but obvious LDs and ADHD) and what giving kids zero support and zero wiggle room looks like. Sink or swim works for the majority -- it worked great for me. But it's ruthlessly horrible for some. |
This is dumb, sorry. I am a huge proponent of teaching classical literature and think everyone should take Latin but swapping one book for another or one language for another is not the difference maker. I read every book my kids are assigned and, besides the fact that I have loved every single choice, I can see how they are excellent teaching tools. The shock to me when I compare my children's experience at FCPS high school is how little they read. It has always been a challenge to have a quality education in a big public school classroom but there is also a quantity problem. The requirements are so minimal. I am so shocked at how low the expectations are. And it started in elementary when zero grammar was taught. Ok, maybe noun, verb, adjective and nothing else. Writing is taught by assigning different kinds of writing with a rubric. There is no systematic laying out of the writing process. The only thing that was well-taught in elementary school was Math. And to the early person blaming progressive education...? You must be talking about a couple of private schools. Not a relevant AT ALL to this discussion. |
+1000. Where I live there is also too much emphasis on project-based learning at the expense of the above skills. |
"hopeless, pressures, ostracized, tired, exhausted, overwhelmed, unhappy, unsatisfied, unmotivated, BORED, incapable, less than, disrespected, judged, under appreciated, unseen, unheard, misunderstood, and desperate"? That sounds like normal life for most people who want more. Just relax. Be happy with what you have, school or not. |
+1 to this. The way current parents are speaking to teachers and coaches is appalling. |
This is equivalent to saying “suck it up.” And the reality is that we’re at a point where your chances at a basic air-conditioned, 9-5 desk job with health insurance benefits can plummet at the drop of a hat. And anyone who won’t admit those jobs are more universally desirable than other jobs is fooling themselves. |