| I have two kids who graduated from Sidwell and we were extremely pleased with the support and guidance of the CCO. Each of our kids worked with a different counselor, and each was extremely helpful in helping our DC develop a balanced list of schools that were good fits for them as individuals. Both kids were encouraged to have a good number of schools that would be considered both solid matches and also “safeties,” in addition to 1-2 reaches. They also were counseled that the process isn’t about getting into the “best” school, but instead to focus on getting into the best school for them. If parents (or the students) don’t listen to the CCO’s good advice and apply only to Ivies or top tier schools, you can’t blame them when you don’t get the outcomes you were hoping for. They can only do so much. The job of the CCO is not to “get your kid into college,” but rather to support your student through the process as they navigate their own path. |
| The CCO can’t force a kid to follow their advice. You have no idea if the CCO discouraged some of the 15 that applied ED to Brown to not do it. At the end of the day, that decision rests with the parents and students. This is not even remotely the fault of the CCO. |
Agree why Brown? What about the other top Ivies? |
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To PP, glad to hear your experience with Sidwell CCO was so positive. I suspect your experience is no longer relevant given the > 50% surge in applications at top 30 schools, average number of apps per kid in 15 - 20 range, insidious yield protection algorithms being sold to most colleges, test optional lowering the threshold for those applying and massive grade inflation at many high schools (not Sidwell frankly). It is absolutely brutal for top kids at a school like Sidwell who get yield protected at safeties and sometimes matches and top 10 reaches become even more lottery like given 50,000 plus apps in RD. I sympathize with the complexity of the CCO’s job, but it is insane to be a kid in the midst of this. I seriously wonder whether my kid’s application was even read at a big public university who “postponed” them. I think they run the algorithm on who is likely to attend and who might get a better offer and kick the can down the road. ED appeared to be legacies, athletes and VIPs/connected types - not bitter just realistic about the situation.
We need a new approach to this new world of college admissions. Not Sidwell’s fault, but school needs to adapt. |
Maybe it's not the top kids that are applying to Brown but the students that are ranked more in the middle. That could explain the big number of students applying. |
Do you have thoughts on what a new approach would be? |
Then why the heck are 15 middle kids applying to an ivy that only 1-3 kids will get in to? That makes no sense. |
I wonder if it's viewed by full-pay families as a "more attainable" Ivy. Let's be real - ED is all about giving full-pay families a leg up in the process. |
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LOL at all the “Why Brown?” comments
Because it’s an awesome undergraduate environment, which is rightfully all 18-year-olds care about, rather than some meaningless ranking Now go ahead and tell all those 18-year-olds why your uninformed 50+ self knows better than they do about where they should want to go |
Yep, at Brown they teach you that 18 year olds are very wise and should make all the decisions for 50+ know-nothings. |
+1. Not impressed with the lousy goosy curriculum requirements |
They tell people it is a reach + ... if you have 5 kids who are legacies and another 10 who absolutely love the school and feel they have a good chance for whatever reason, the CCO can tell them it is a 2% chance or whatever, but unless the school changes rules to be like a NE boarding school where they limit options for the applicants, then it is what it is. |
+1. Also, who really thinks Brown — or any school — is unhappy about getting more applications from anywhere, let alone Sidwell? They market to students for precisely that reason. C’mon, man. |
| If 15 applied then a bunch of middle-of-pack applied because I seriously doubt each of the top 15 kids applied to Brown. Basically a bunch of kids applied who had no business applying. Their rejection is on them. |
Meh...my 3.8 SFS senior didn't apply to any Ivies. |