Have you ever crossed the line with your work spouse?

[Anonymous]

Married now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well the story thickens. It turns out they do, repeat do, work there, but now they say they are not my spouse and don't even recognize me. Back to the drawing table! LOL

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You okay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have had two work spouses. One was gay. The other I could tell started having feelings for me, we were both married. We held hands once but otherwise nothing happened but I could tell he was jealous when I was hanging out with a platonic male friend in my office who also worked at our company. His wife would stop by occasionally and she would give me dirty looks. He and I stopped chatting when I left the job.

How did it happen that you held hands?

[Anonymous]

yep and then we stopped talking after I fingered her back in ‘09.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well the story thickens. It turns out they do, repeat do, work there, but now they say they are not my spouse and don't even recognize me. Back to the drawing table! LOL

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You okay?

ROTFLMAO! It was just a little confusing when work spouse turned out not be employed in the actual same place, but at a different place, and not the one you may be thinking of, then it turns out that my spouse is not even that person. Anyhoo, life goes in!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well the story thickens. It turns out they do, repeat do, work there, but now they say they are not my spouse and don't even recognize me. Back to the drawing table! LOL

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You okay?

ROTFLMAO! It was just a little confusing when work spouse turned out not be employed in the actual same place, but at a different place, and not the one you may be thinking of, then it turns out that my spouse is not even that person. Anyhoo, life goes in!

And my biggest worry was that my so supposed work spouse was a liberal who does not love this Land. Let Freedom be!

[Anonymous]

Yes, I had one.

It turned into an affair.

I fell in love with him, but I can’t have him.

It’s over.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have had two work spouses. One was gay. The other I could tell started having feelings for me, we were both married. We held hands once but otherwise nothing happened but I could tell he was jealous when I was hanging out with a platonic male friend in my office who also worked at our company. His wife would stop by occasionally and she would give me dirty looks. He and I stopped chatting when I left the job.

Um, please tell us more about the situation where you held hands, and specifically was it at work?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Had a situation with someone that I thought of as a beloved work spouse. We were very close and could finish each other's and other people's sentences. So much fun. But then I released the person in question did not actually work with me or work anywhere. It was quite the shock. When I told them, they got very flustered, pretending to be confused and asking me who I was and did we know each other. "Im sorry, I think you have mistaken me for someone else" and all this Who Struck John. BTDT.

WTF are you talking about?

Than k you. My same reaction. Is he/she talking about an imaginary person?

[Anonymous]

I have never crossed the line with my work husband but came close last week.After our office afternoon party we both had too much to drink so he and I passed out for a few hours in my hotel room. I live an hour away and didn’t want to drive. It was innocent but was close to crossing the line.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never have, going on 12 years. But he is fantastic and even comes over for holiday dinners sometimes, etc. DH likes him a lot too, they are friends now also. It can be completely legitimate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have never crossed the line with my work husband but came close last week.After our office afternoon party we both had too much to drink so he and I passed out for a few hours in my hotel room. I live an hour away and didn’t want to drive. It was innocent but was close to crossing the line.

Maybe it's just me but if you're both married then I think you did cross the line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Had a situation with someone that I thought of as a beloved work spouse. We were very close and could finish each other's and other people's sentences. So much fun. But then I released the person in question did not actually work with me or work anywhere. It was quite the shock. When I told them, they got very flustered, pretending to be confused and asking me who I was and did we know each other. "Im sorry, I think you have mistaken me for someone else" and all this Who Struck John. BTDT.

WTF are you talking about?

Than k you. My same reaction. Is he/she talking about an imaginary person?

Well not so much imaginary as involuntary. This person who shall remain selfless pretended not to be someone else right up until the moment they became employed (but not yet a spouse.) Anyhoo, we're still figuring out, but it would help a lot of they were able to admit we've talked before and were even work-type spouses. Fingers crossed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Had a situation with someone that I thought of as a beloved work spouse. We were very close and could finish each other's and other people's sentences. So much fun. But then I released the person in question did not actually work with me or work anywhere. It was quite the shock. When I told them, they got very flustered, pretending to be confused and asking me who I was and did we know each other. "Im sorry, I think you have mistaken me for someone else" and all this Who Struck John. BTDT.

WTF are you talking about?

Than k you. My same reaction. Is he/she talking about an imaginary person?

Well not so much imaginary as involuntary. This person who shall remain selfless pretended not to be someone else right up until the moment they became employed (but not yet a spouse.) Anyhoo, we're still figuring out, but it would help a lot of they were able to admit we've talked before and were even work-type spouses. Fingers crossed.

Hello schizophrenia

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have never crossed the line with my work husband but came close last week.After our office afternoon party we both had too much to drink so he and I passed out for a few hours in my hotel room. I live an hour away and didn’t want to drive. It was innocent but was close to crossing the line.

Maybe it's just me but if you're both married then I think you did cross the line.

I agree. I think being in a hotel room is crossing the line even if nothing happened.