Sign of an Affair?

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[Post New]02/08/2015 00:08
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Anonymous
DW is wa over her text limit and I noticed on the bill that the texts are all to the same number. I suspect ther is an affair going on. When I asked her about it she got defensive about my looking into her private affairs. It's not as if I stole her phone. I just notice the pattern.
[Post New]02/08/2015 00:10
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Anonymous
Did you look the number up? That would probably answer a lot of questions right there.
[Post New]02/08/2015 00:11
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Anonymous
Call the number.
[Post New]02/08/2015 00:11
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Anonymous
You're not looking at her phone. You just saw it on her bill.

It seems like a reasonable question.

[Post New]02/08/2015 00:12
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Anonymous
You can pay various services to get information on who has that number.
[Post New]02/08/2015 00:14
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Anonymous
To be fair, if she was cheating, she probably would not react that way because she knows it's easy to look things up. If she was cheating, she would have some kind of plausible sounding BS ready to go for when you asked.
[Post New]02/08/2015 00:27
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Anonymous
You can use this website to search for free: http://thatsthem.com/reverse-phone-search

or just type the number on the facebook search bar and sometimes it yields results. Of course you can simply call the number and try to figure out as well.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:16
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Anonymous
The website above gives me nothing.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:23
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Anonymous
So she didnt tell you who this person is, at all?
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:23
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Anonymous
OP -- if not physical an emotional affair.

Sorry -- - you may come out in a brighter place.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:51
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:So she didnt tell you who this person is, at all?


Claims it is female coworker. She came home late Friday and had obviously had a few drinks. While she was in the shower her phone buzzed. I cannot open her phone but there was a message something to the effect of happy you are exhausted in a good way. Earlier there was a text mentioning wrapped around you.

I have not said anything as I want to see how I can actually catch her in the act and how that could help me in a divorce.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:55
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So she didnt tell you who this person is, at all?


Claims it is female coworker. She came home late Friday and had obviously had a few drinks. While she was in the shower her phone buzzed. I cannot open her phone but there was a message something to the effect of happy you are exhausted in a good way. Earlier there was a text mentioning wrapped around you.

I have not said anything as I want to see how I can actually catch her in the act and how that could help me in a divorce.


Let me get this straight.

1. Wife comes home drunk
2. Hops in shower
3. Text says something about exhaustion
4. Other text says being wrapped around her

Dude. That's an affair if I've ever heard one, and I always think people here jump to conclusions ("Your husband made you pancakes and you don't normally eat them? He's fucking his secretary you dumb bitch! Wake up!")

Hire a pi or just call the number.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:55
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Anonymous
I'm very sorry to hear. Been there. As I understand it, proof of an affair doesn't help you in either MD or DC divorce. In DC, it's one of 12 factors a judge can use for property settlements/alimony, but my understanding is in reality it rarely matters. It may help a bit more in VA, especially in terms of expediting your case. Anyone who's a family lawyer out there should feel free to amplify/correct.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:56
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Anonymous
I called the number. Goes to voice mail.
[Post New]02/08/2015 06:57
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Anonymous
I just worry about my kids snd divorce.
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