Spouse's influence on your choice of sleepwear

[Anonymous]

What influence, if any, does your DH's or DW's opinion or own habits have on what you wear to bed, and vice versa? I'm sure basic comfort is the goal for most of us, but do you tend to dress any differently when sharing the bed versus sleeping alone?

[Anonymous]

PJ pants and a cotton shirt alone or with DH. Good thing he finds me sexy in them

[Anonymous]

None. Slept naked long before I met dh.

[Anonymous]

zero

[Anonymous]

Cotton is a must for me, and maximum coverage for the winter - so I buy flannel PJs with cute prints.

I told DH his rags were NOT sexy, and not improving our love life! Either sleep naked or get new PJs that don't have gaping holes in them.
He got new PJs.

[Anonymous]

no influence

[Anonymous]

I mix it up.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been married?

I go for comfort but cute. Married 20 years.

DS wears boxers and a tee.

[Anonymous]

What's the point? I wear nightclothes so that my kids do not see me walking around naked.

DH gets me off my clothes in 2 minutes flat as soon as he gets into bed.

[Anonymous]

I just wear an XL t-shirt to bed. One time, when I was ordering a couple of replacements, DH requested the color red so I bought a red one. Thus ends his influence.

[Anonymous]

I wore cute flannel pjs before I moved in with DH. The kind that would get you enthusiastic compliments from your girlfriends when you're all on a girls trip.

While we were engaged and living together DH gave me a come to jesus talk about my sleepwear. He basically said it made him feel like he was sleeping with a 12 year old and trying to not appear as a pedophile to anyone who would barge into our bedroom and see us sleeping together (not that that would happen).

Anyway, so I kind of polled my friends and figured out what DH would find sexy and bought what he would like that I would find comfortable.

I still have two pairs of the cute flannel pjs, but rarely wear them at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just wear an XL t-shirt to bed. One time, when I was ordering a couple of replacements, DH requested the color red so I bought a red one. Thus ends his influence.

LOL this made me laugh.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I wear whatever the hell I want.

[Anonymous]

I would wear La perla if my Husband would put out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been married?

I go for comfort but cute. Married 20 years.

DS wears boxers and a tee.

3 years. He's always slept naked, and I honestly found it a little strange at first. But then I started after a little light teasing when we got married, and I absolutely love it now that I've gotten used to it.