My DH is a sexual mid life crisis and giving out his phone number to girls

[Anonymous]

How can this be stopped before serious damage is made? My trust has been totally violated but I can't throw us out of the window for this. How do I stop this?

[Anonymous]

you can't stop it. you can't control him. the only thing that you can control is when you leave him.

[Anonymous]

Why are you posting again, OP?

Your husband should get therapy.
I'm not sure you will find adequate advice on these boards.

[Anonymous]

When is the last time you guys had sex? I mean dirty sex. I mean, all those things he likes that you (probably) used to do but don't anymore?

If your answer is "I don't know," then this is your fault. If your answer is "last week and the week before," then he's a douche.

[Anonymous]

Is he fixed? Is he up for paying child support?

[Anonymous]

He can give out his number to as many girls as he wants. But do any call him? He may be delusional in thinking anyone else would have him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When is the last time you guys had sex? I mean dirty sex. I mean, all those things he likes that you (probably) used to do but don't anymore?

If your answer is "I don't know," then this is your fault. If your answer is "last week and the week before," then he's a douche.

You are a moron. She is supposed to provide "Dirty Sex" or he gives his phone number to young girls? In what world is that appropriate?

[Anonymous]

Hmmmm....i think this is the troll that "asks relationship questions" (with the quotes) to get a rise out of dcum community

[Anonymous]

Why are grown women calling other grown women "girls" this week on DCUM? I feel like this is not the first thread about a DH going after "girls." I sincerely hope you don't actually mean "girls," because that's illegal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When is the last time you guys had sex? I mean dirty sex. I mean, all those things he likes that you (probably) used to do but don't anymore?

If your answer is "I don't know," then this is your fault. If your answer is "last week and the week before," then he's a douche.

You are a moron. She is supposed to provide "Dirty Sex" or he gives his phone number to young girls? In what world is that appropriate?

Where did OP say the girls are "young?" I didn't see that part.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When is the last time you guys had sex? I mean dirty sex. I mean, all those things he likes that you (probably) used to do but don't anymore?

If your answer is "I don't know," then this is your fault. If your answer is "last week and the week before," then he's a douche.

You are a moron. She is supposed to provide "Dirty Sex" or he gives his phone number to young girls? In what world is that appropriate?

Apparently, you're the moron. When you think that lack of sex (for months or years) is perfectly normal, you are the problem.

[Anonymous]

Has the world changed in the time I have been married? Isn't a guy supposed to get phone numbers, not give out his own?

[Anonymous]

The dirty sex poster must not be getting any hits out of the explicit forum so he's fishing over here. I'll bet money he's ugly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can this be stopped before serious damage is made? My trust has been totally violated but I can't throw us out of the window for this. How do I stop this?

Why did you marry him?

[Anonymous]

If you really want to appear like a new poster, OP, you should not use the same words and context as in the previous post. "Girls" and "phone numbers" and "husband in a mid-life crisis', etc.

Or if you have not found enough helpful responses in the previous post, then you should just be honest and say so.