Are We Crazy for Questioning a $250k US Degree and looking abroad?

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Anonymous wrote:College is an investment in your kids future so one way to view this is analogous to investing in indexed funds.

Look at what’s available and make a choice based on individual circumstances and risk tolerance. In some cases investing in an international fund may make the most sense, in other cases a domestic fund makes sense.

Some schools offer options where you can do dual degree programs and so invest in both options.

There is no right or wrong answer here. Different options work depending on the kid’s circumstances and desires.


Please you have too much common sense. Typically not found on these boards….
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No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.
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Anonymous wrote:College is an investment in your kids future so one way to view this is analogous to investing in indexed funds.

Look at what’s available and make a choice based on individual circumstances and risk tolerance. In some cases investing in an international fund may make the most sense, in other cases a domestic fund makes sense.

Some schools offer options where you can do dual degree programs and so invest in both options.

There is no right or wrong answer here. Different options work depending on the kid’s circumstances and desires.


Please you have too much common sense. Typically not found on these boards….


Yeah, get with the program, buddy, or you & all your fancy-schmancy logical reasoning can just get the heck out of here!

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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


Both good choices.

Very different environments. Edi is very urban and a bit inland with much better transport options. StA is in a small college town along the North Sea. Suggest visiting both before deciding.

Look at the various UK university guides (Guardian, Times, etc) for the specific degree that DC is pursuing. In some cases, one university will have a clearly stronger offering. In other cases, the offerings will be very similar.

In both cases, one likely would fly in/out via EDI airport.
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Anonymous wrote: I realize this is an old, reactivated thread, but anyone who thinks it is always cheaper overseas should check online before jumping in. St. Andres is now $66,000 a year for international students, so $264K (not including airfare) and Oxford is now $81,765 pounds, so x 3 years. A better option is to do state flagship for undergrad and grad overseas.


First of all NOBODY here (just ready the whole thread) insisted or said that it is “ always cheaper overseas “. You are the first one that said that.

Clearly you are you quite grasping the point being made here by a lot of people. The avg kid going to St Andrews or elsewhere in the UK or Europe is NOT the same kid that is forgoing their state flagship to do so. Please…..different universes…..these kids are kids that likely going to be full pay at T100 US privates. Don’t be naive.



Po is correctly responding to OP’s claims: “the pros are still massive. The most obvious is the cost, which is just staggering. We're talking about the potential to get a degree for a price that's less than a single year at some private US colleges. The math is pretty compelling: with many EU public universities having tuition at a fraction of US schools, the savings are life-changing. Specially if you are able to invest that savings on behalf of your kids for when they graduate.”


And there is nothing wrong with OP claims…even at this exchange rate, it is still true. A place like Exeter at 24k Pounds x 3 years (73k pounds) is still less than $100k dollars..and you get your degree…..

PP cherry-picked two schools to make a point (with one being a 4-yr degree) and even then. Still cheaper that ANY top 100 Private full pay uni in the US. As a PP mentioned, there very little IF ANY crossover between in state flagship uni applicants and kids who go abroad….noen of these kids are making these decisions (maybe. Tiny percentage). I have had 3 kids study in the UK from California. None of them had friends that made decisions to attend their UK school that were forgoing a State Flagship to do so. Different crowds….whether you like it or not.


And you are cherry picking as well. That is tuition ONLY for Exeter accounting, the cheapest tuition as you know, because you went to this list and picked it. However, we all can see that Exeter fees can go as high as $38k+ pounds a year plus then you have to tack on accommodations, fees, books, travel, etc, which is a separate Exeter tab altogether. Others here are providing he sensible “all-in” fee. You do sound like a cantankerous nutter who has to fight about everything. Just stop or go take a drink. https://www.exeter.ac.uk/study/undergraduate/fees/


Not at all. My kids are in humanities and business. SO that is what I focus on. The vast majority of these are under 25k pounds. You are not medicine there, so if STEM you will be at 30k pounds. Even with room and board and the fact it is 3 years you are still MUCH MUCH MUCH cheaper than ANY US Private school full pay.




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Argue all you want. Show me on Private US university in the top 100 that is equivalent in total pricing for a degree to a school like Exeter or Warwick or Bristol or Durham ?? You wont be able to because it doesnt exist.


Top privates in US give generous aid. Yale for example waves tuition for all families making under 200k. Similarly ranked privates are need based and comparably generous.

A family making >200k a year should have saved money for their kids college, so it won’t be a major drag on family finances. But if money is the main concern then well regarded state flagships will be cheaper and arguably better.

UK universities are public schools, it’s silly to flat out reject the comparison with public US colleges and only compare with privates.


This doesn't answer the PP's question. Just because a family making 200K+ a year, should be capable of paying 90k/year in tuition, according to your opinion, doesn't mean they want to do so, if cheaper comparable opportunities abroad exist.


The decision on what college to attend depends first on getting in, cost, available money, educational quality, career opportunities and many other factors.

If you’re looking at cheaper comparable (comparable to what?) opportunities abroad than also look at cheaper comparable opportunities in state. When this is brought up, the UK cheerleaders are nope, you can’t do that, only US private full pay vs UK is an allowed comparison, which is both silly and pointless.


+1. It’s so weird how dug in some people are getting about this. If you care this much about costs then you care about costs, plain and simple, and you have options domestically too. Even OOS publics can save money in many cases for a full pay family.

Part of this is that there are a lot of private school families here where going abroad is about saving face/bragging to the other private school parents when the T20 door closes, rather than the money itself (or, god forbid, the actual academic programming and opportunities). The cognitive dissonance kicks in when people mention going to a public school because, no, couldn’t possibly consider that idea, imagine telling Sara’s mom that’s what we’re doing, why would you suggest such a thing?


100% agree. A lot of these UK universities posters are chasing prestige at deep discounts. The kid can’t make it to top 20 in US, and/or they don’t have money saved for college.

Then they are checking the sales rack in search of a good deal, after all Cambridge, Oxford are on the same level as Top 20. But the chances of getting in after T20 rejection are inexistent.

Next they go down the list to Leeds, Essex and Aberdeen, prestige is in short supply, but a least they clam to be savvy shoppers because they saved on cost. Never mind that costs are not exactly rock bottom and the savings are $10-20k a year at best. And that’s at the cost of being in another country, doing internships overseas if even allowed, building a network in another country etc. If the intent is to return to US after graduation, that’s not ideal, and in my view it’s not worth the savings.

Its better to go to a solid state school, aim for Top 20 in grad school if that’s your thing.


There is absolutely nothing wrong with a kid and a parent that sends their kid to the UK if they dont get in to a Top 20 or so and end up at Durham, UCL, Kings, St Andrews instead….is that a problem? I dont think so.


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Some kids are adventurous, and would be better served by being a pioneer at a 2nd tier UK school or an EU university than by going to their state flagship (along with half their high school friends).

Vive la difference!


Yes, but that’s different than claiming that you are choosing based on cost and then flipping out when someone suggests a flagship and claiming that no one would do that.


+1. And arguing endlessly about it long after everyone else has left the thread.


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It’s fine to look, apply and decide to go to college in another country. It’s another thing to pretend it’s so much cheaper or better.

It’s just an option, and if one looks into it it’s not that different than what’s available at home in US, in terms of money, prestige or career opportunities.


Nobody here is saying it is better. But if you remove Scotland and the London schools, you can still get a much cheaper total price at a place like Durham, Exeter, Manchester, etc.

Exeter for instance is 25k tuition for most Humanities/business/etc plus 10k for room/board. That totals 35k pounds x 3 = 105k pounds. That is 141k dollars with Feb 23 2026 exchange rates. That is equivalent to $35k dollars per year in a US university. Very few Out of State publics charge that little for Tuition/Room and Board.


Are you taking financial aid in consideration, did you run a net price calculator?

A lot of the “savings” are coming from the undergraduate degree being 3 years instead of 4, but you’re getting education for only three years. You need to have taken many advanced courses, equivalent to APs that also get US college credit and potentially shorten the time to graduate. If you’re not well prepared, I’m not sure a three year degree is advisable.

Look at the tuition alone, 25k ponds is $35k. Sticker price tuition in US for OOS and privates is about $70k, but if you run a cost estimate for a family making $200k a year with $2M in assets, tuition is roughly $40k. Not sure Durham is that great of a deal if you take this into consideration.

The issue is people in this thread massage the numbers to make it seem that UK colleges are so much cheaper when that’s simply not the case. Even then, taking a riskier, less beaten path to save $50k in college cost is not wise in my view. Consider the internship opportunities, name recognition, what you want to do after graduation etc.

Again if cost is the main driver, then go in state. If you’re counting every dollar you’re not looking at privates and out of state. Guaranteed that in state tuition is far less than $35k a year, and likely has a better name recognition than Durham or Exeter for US employers.
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


No financial aid at USC? Average yearly cost of attendance is $41k.

https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/colleges/university-of-southern-california/tuition-and-costs

I get that most of these examples are made up, but either you have the money and it doesn’t make sense to scrape the barrel for good deals overseas, or you need financial aid and US universities will give you some.

Also 8 APs will be enough for one year of general education credits, if you need to graduate early.
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


No financial aid at USC? Average yearly cost of attendance is $[b]41k.

https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/colleges/university-of-southern-california/tuition-and-costs

I get that most of these examples are made up, but either you have the money and it doesn’t make sense to scrape the barrel for good deals overseas, or you need financial aid and US universities will give you some.

Also 8 APs will be enough for one year of general education credits, if you need to graduate early.


No, USC is one of the most expensive SLACs in the U.S. at $99,918 a year but purposefully allows in that figure only $414 for travel so it won’t go over the critical $100k mark. DCUM readers will all go over $100k a year to attend. Here’s the actual admissions site: https://financialaid.usc.edu/undergraduate-financial-aid/cost-of-attendance/
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


No financial aid at USC? Average yearly cost of attendance is $[b]41k.

https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/colleges/university-of-southern-california/tuition-and-costs

I get that most of these examples are made up, but either you have the money and it doesn’t make sense to scrape the barrel for good deals overseas, or you need financial aid and US universities will give you some.

Also 8 APs will be enough for one year of general education credits, if you need to graduate early.


No, USC is one of the most expensive SLACs in the U.S. at $99,918 a year but purposefully allows in that figure only $414 for travel so it won’t go over the critical $100k mark. DCUM readers will all go over $100k a year to attend. Here’s the actual admissions site: https://financialaid.usc.edu/undergraduate-financial-aid/cost-of-attendance/


You seem uneducated about college cost in US. That’s the cost of attendance with full tuition price. Not everyone pays that, at USC 66% of the students get financial aid and 20% get merit aid.

As I said, you’re probably lying about your kids USC admission, or you have a lot of money and you don’t need financial aid. In that case it’s sort of dumb to go for Durham instead of USC.
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


No financial aid at USC? Average yearly cost of attendance is $41k.

https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/colleges/university-of-southern-california/tuition-and-costs

I get that most of these examples are made up, but either you have the money and it doesn’t make sense to scrape the barrel for good deals overseas, or you need financial aid and US universities will give you some.

Also 8 APs will be enough for one year of general education credits, if you need to graduate early.


this is a really old way of thinking. plenty of people have a couple million dollars and don't get FA -- but paying 800k for two kids seems ridic.

St Andrews and Kings were on the table for my kid. Would have taken those over a lot of other 90k options, like Georgetown or BC. Got into HYP so decided it was worth it. 60k is a lot cheaper than 90k.

I was just talking about this last night with some mom friends - taking Wisconsin over Michigan bcs the price is a lot different. This feels like the same thing. Is MI a "better" school? I guess. Will your outcomes be actually different, probably not. And, say, giving the kid a paid off car at college graduation, 2k a month for rent for 3 years, and moving that 35k from 529 to Roth in early 20s would both meaningfully make a kids life better. OR paying for grad school.
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Anonymous wrote:No we are seriously considering UofT (Toronto St. George campus) for DD. As dual Canadian-US citizens, tuition will be around $10K US atu UofT versus $45K US for a similar oos public uni.


No brainer. Our kid trying to decide between Edi and StA, both over USC which was his best admit in the US, but no merit.


No financial aid at USC? Average yearly cost of attendance is $41k.

https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/colleges/university-of-southern-california/tuition-and-costs

I get that most of these examples are made up, but either you have the money and it doesn’t make sense to scrape the barrel for good deals overseas, or you need financial aid and US universities will give you some.

Also 8 APs will be enough for one year of general education credits, if you need to graduate early.


this is a really old way of thinking. plenty of people have a couple million dollars and don't get FA -- but paying 800k for two kids seems ridic.

St Andrews and Kings were on the table for my kid. Would have taken those over a lot of other 90k options, like Georgetown or BC. Got into HYP so decided it was worth it. 60k is a lot cheaper than 90k.

I was just talking about this last night with some mom friends - taking Wisconsin over Michigan bcs the price is a lot different. This feels like the same thing. Is MI a "better" school? I guess. Will your outcomes be actually different, probably not. And, say, giving the kid a paid off car at college graduation, 2k a month for rent for 3 years, and moving that 35k from 529 to Roth in early 20s would both meaningfully make a kids life better. OR paying for grad school.


Everyone has their own financial priorities. If $60k is your budget run a net price calculator and don’t apply to USC, and BC if they are over that line. Quoting the sticker price tuition to compare is silly when so many students get a discount, but it will be dependent on family finances.

What people consistently say here is that a US Public College is similarly priced if not cheaper that a UK Public University. I’d take UVA, UMD, MI, Wisconsin, Delaware, Florida, U Texas, UNC, Georgia, UMass, UDub, SUNY, UIUC, UCs, UC Boulder, Minnesota, etc over Durham any day if I’m in state. Most states, especially the populous ones, have a flagship that’s decent, and cover more than 80% of the US population.

Save the money for grad school if that’s your thing.
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