| I know some people think it's kinda rapey, but I want a man (ideally DH, ha) to take the lead and hold my face and kiss me. I feel a pang of envy and heartache every time I see it in movies and on TV. |
| Why not, ya know, tell DH this. He's not a mind reader |
| I agree! Tell your man! |
| Telling your partner ruins the spontaneity. Getting a "spontaneous" blowjob after reminding your wife is not nearly as much fun. |
| OP here. Sadly, I have told him. Repeatedly. |
| You grab him and kiss. |
| Tell DH that you fantasize about some other man doing it to you. |
| Post on CL |
+1 I understand OP. same here. |
how that conversation go? |
He says all the right things, promises to follow up, and never does. |
Your DH is useless. Where are you OP? Let me come over.
|
| sounds like you married a beta provider and not an alpha male that gives you the tingles. |
| I'd like the same. Love hubby and have a great relationship, but it'll never happen, I'm afraid. |
| Thank the feminist for screaming rape all the time for softening men to the point where they don't want to be accused of being misogynistic. |