Father in law is drinking way too much already
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Anonymous
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It is 12:30 already a half bottle of scotch is gone and his rude comments about my attractive sister in law are starting.
what do I do or say? She laughs at him when he shoulders up to her and says things like you looked great in your robe this morning etc. |
Anonymous
| Laugh too and say 'incest is funny'. |
Anonymous
| Is he at your house? Does he normally act like this? If yes, why did you invite him again? |
Anonymous
| Whaaaaat? The old man needs a kick in the balls. |
Anonymous
| Gross |
Anonymous
| And where is DH in all of this? Tell him either he tells his father to stop or get out or you will. |
Anonymous
He passed away a few years ago, so they come each year to be with us. |
Anonymous
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Fake a crisis and go to a friends house.
I hate the holidays... alcoholics go haywire, even for them. |
Anonymous
| You may want to check out some Al-Anon meetings for the next time your FIL visits. I know you're only dealing with this now and then but it's good to have some support for times like this. In the meantime, the best advice I can give you is to take care of yourself. He's not going to change and it's pointless to fix him but you can set limits for yourself. Good luck, OP, hope it gets better! |
Anonymous
"Sit your drunk ass down!" I would -- but I am ballsy like that |
Anonymous
Oh, man. Your DH is dead and you have to put up with this? I am so sorry. The holidays must be tough! |
Anonymous
| They are not so bad, I have remarried but keep the relationship they with the kids I have with my now passed dh and the kids I have with my current dh are ok with it all. |
Anonymous
You're an admirable person, OP. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours. |
Anonymous
| Don't ever leave your kids alone with an alcoholic |
Anonymous
| Sorry but don't think this is a real post . . . |