Having dinner with an old friend..great husband material - need advice!
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Anonymous
Old friend invited me to dinner. Mentioned he just broke up with his girlfriend of a few months. We're not spring chickens, both in our 50s, been friends for a decade. C'mon DCUMs- give me some great advice! 
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Anonymous
Don't sleep with him yet! 
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Anonymous
| Are you single? |
Anonymous
| Yes, I'm single and we've never even kissed so sex is out of the question (at least tonight!) |
Anonymous
| Should I wear something sexy? He's never seen me like that but I don't want to be too obvious! (i know i'm acting like a teenager but this is a prime opportunity!) |
Anonymous
| A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. Why are you looking to get married, assuming you aren't looking to raise a family. |
Anonymous
You are happy and confident and you are not sexing him tonight, and you are available but not chasing him. Have fun! |
Anonymous
| And once again... friendship between man and woman does not exist. |
Anonymous
LOL I kind of agree! You don't need a husband for commitment. Set your expectations low, wear something semi-sexy, but comfy. Have a good time! |
Anonymous
| Look your best and have fun. Don't think of it as a relationship interview. If it goes that way, it goes that way. |
Anonymous
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I happen to think he would be great husband material and I have a kid so a dad for him would be great.. but ok, something semi-sexy.. got it.
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Anonymous
| Semi-sexy but not over the top, happy and not interview-y. Have fun and good luck! |
Anonymous
| Wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and beautiful, he's known you for ten years, so if he were interested whatever you wear tonight will not change his mind about you. Have fun and report back please! |
Anonymous
| I'm so excited for you! Please post back and let us know how it went! |
Anonymous
| YOLO just sleep with him! |