You're an young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman. Why??

[Anonymous]

Why in the hell are you taking up with this 30+ married father of 2? You can have anything you want! Why oh why are you making such terrible decisions? There are so many of you that do this. So soo stupid.

[Anonymous]

I agree. I wouldn't want the baggage.

[Anonymous]

Better question:

Why can't a 30+ father of two keep it in his pants every time a young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman walks by?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Better question:

Why can't a 30+ father of two keep it in his pants every time a young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman walks by?

Not a better question. He can. He doesn't want to. His incentive is obvious - young, attractive woman wants to have sex with him. The costs outweigh the benefits, but the benefits are obvious for him; the costs are less immediate. Furthermore, his options are limited - the wife (whose qualities we don't know at this point) or the young hottie.

Now, back to the young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman - what's the upside for her? Her options are wide open.

[Anonymous]

Um, same as him? Sex with someone she finds attractive, and presumably no strings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um, same as him? Sex with someone she finds attractive, and presumably no strings.

But they all end up wanting strings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um, same as him? Sex with someone she finds attractive, and presumably no strings.

But they all end up wanting strings.

Yep, especially the non-committed party.

[Anonymous]

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can
Your beauty is beyond compare
With flaming locks of auburn hair
With ivory skin and eyes of emerald green

Your smile is like a breath of spring
Your voice is soft like summer rain
And I cannot compete with you, Jolene

He talks about you in his sleep
There's nothing I can do to keep
From crying when he calls your name, Jolene

And I can easily understand
How you could easily take my man
But you don't know what he means to me, Jolene

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him just because you can

You could have your choice of men
But I could never love again
He's the only one for me, Jolene

I had to have this talk with you
My happiness depends on you
And whatever you decide to do, Jolene

Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him even though you can
Jolene, Jolene

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um, same as him? Sex with someone she finds attractive, and presumably no strings.

Um, guess we'll have to dig down. Why does she find him attractive?

He finds her attractive because she's "young and attractive" (per the information we've been given.)

What we know about him is that he's 30+ with wife & kids.

[Anonymous]

I love that song!

[Anonymous]

Because the other woman/man always does the sexual things your spouse won't (or stopped) doing. Pleasures of the flesh always win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Better question:

Why can't a 30+ father of two keep it in his pants every time a young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman walks by?

Because he doesn't have to?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Better question:

Why can't a 30+ father of two keep it in his pants every time a young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman walks by?

Not a better question. He can. He doesn't want to. His incentive is obvious - young, attractive woman wants to have sex with him. The costs outweigh the benefits, but the benefits are obvious for him; the costs are less immediate. Furthermore, his options are limited - the wife (whose qualities we don't know at this point) or the young hottie.

Now, back to the young, attractive, educated, self-sufficient woman - what's the upside for her? Her options are wide open.

spoken like a true businessman or businesswoman. In stocks or options?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why in the hell are you taking up with this 30+ married father of 2? You can have anything you want! Why oh why are you making such terrible decisions? There are so many of you that do this. So soo stupid.

Why in the hell do you care?

[Anonymous]

^ PP's gotta point there, that is, unless you are the OM who wish he could "hit that" but she's taking up some other dude, who happens to be married with bambinos. Amirite?