I can't speak for your son .. only mine. My son is 6.5yo and was diagnosed with ADHD at 5.5yo when school was just falling apart for him. We're separately pursuing further evaluation since I also suspect HFA. A big part of the problem we had in Kindie is that he required one-on-one attention and direction to be able to successfully meet school benchmarks and function in a public school environment. It's not that he can't talk about an grasp other things that are far beyond his grade level ... this is just about the things that they evaluate for. And it's not that he's not bright ... he is SO smart ... it's that he's not able to track direction.
I had the opportunity to observe him this last weekend when we went to the MD Renn Faire. We were there for the weekend and I managed to forget his medication so I observed him unmedicated. I saw how differently he behaved than other kids around him. He was unable to do things as simple as hold his place in line. He was too distracted by the activities and new environment. My son is on Strattera and not on stimulants because of his appetite and weight gain (or loss ... I've posted separately) but I've noticed a significant difference between his behavior and his ability to track the world around him on medication vs. not. Now that he's settled into school, I notice a significant difference between this year and last year.
ADHD is a delay in the development of executive function. Executive function is an underlying capability that determines a lot so far as how kids absorb and function (or not) in the school environment. I have a lot of issues with "the school environment" but the fact remains that a delay in executive function can severely impact a child's ability to function in that environment and learn key material that is a basis for further grade levels. So regardless of the fact that my son grasps on some level atoms and molecules and the basic states of matter, the fact that he refuses to read means he is behind. As I said, I can't speak for your child, only mine. With my child, as genius as I see him in science and technology, he does not absorb reading and writing the way other kids do in the school environment. This year medication is allowing him to track, at least somewhat. I know our psychiatrist believes he would function better on stimulants, but we are not medically able to try them yet because of the weight loss issue.
The only other thing I have to say is that it's not a decision you have to make now for all time. Some medications have a time period you have to build up or draw down but for a lot of ADHD medications you should see an impact right away. Your most powerful tool is a journal. With a journal you should be able to see appreciable impact after starting a medication (or not) ... and have something to bring to the psychiatrist if not. If a medication is not helping, you do not need to continue using it. I know I've been conditioned by years of articles about overdiagnosis to mistrust a psychiatrist pushing medication. While those articles may be right, they don't necessarily speak for my son ... and the fact remains that early intervention is the most successful intervention (in a large part because we operate in the forced schooling paradigm .. but that's a separate issue).
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