Ex-Boyfriend and Facebook
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Anonymous
| 6 months ago my ex boyfriend cheated on me, so I obviously broke up with him. The breakup was ugly and he said he didn't want to be with me anyways, yes we are in our 20's before anyone asks. I don't use Facebook very often but was recently tagged in several pictures and posted a few pictures from my vacation in Utah. I haven't spoken to ex in 6 months and was pretty specific about him never contacting me ever again. I only log on to Facebook once a month of so and just noticed he had liked a bunch of my vacation pictures. I didn't block him when we first broke up because as I said I never really go on FB and I also didn't want him to think I was immature or cared. I never look at his page and haven't seen it since we broke up. Two questions, 1) do I delete him now or will that make him think I still care (I do and I'm still heartbroken) and 2) why is he liking things on my page? The break up was bad. |
Anonymous
| Delete and block. Who cares what he thinks. You're done with him. |
Anonymous
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Which is more important to you OP - protecting your privacy or protecting your ego.
If your primary objective is to not have him pilfering through your personal life then block the jerk. If your primary objective is to feel like you "won" the Immature Battle of the Break-Up then by all means don't do anything; allow him to tag and "like" your pics and rummage through your social media accounts with reckless abandon all he wants with no response or consequence to prove that you don't still care. |
Anonymous
I second this. I went through a bad breakup and my ex continued to write me on facebook begging for forgiveness, etc...typical... I deleted him from facebook as well as all of his friends. I never looked back! |
Anonymous
| Delete and block now. Don't think about it any more. |
Anonymous
| Easy. He's out of your life now and should be out of your FB too. |
Anonymous
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I think probably the best thing to do is wait another month or so and then delete him or block him. maybe both.
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Anonymous
| But why is he liking pictures? I don't understand that. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| He's annoying. Who cares what the cheater does. Block delete! |
Anonymous
| I can't I just cant |
Anonymous
That's what you think! You love him and you want him and you think that you will never get over him - but actually - you will get over him in about a year - but only if you break all contacts with him. SO - delete and forget. Ask - what has this relationship reduced you to? Are you not worthy enough that someone who professes to love you will honor you by not sleeping with others? Are you that pathetic person who is a doormat? Are you not worthy of loyalty? Do not sell yourself short - and do not go back or engage with him - just because you cannot take the bitter pill of a breakup! Guys do not cheat by accident. This guy does not want you long term - just as a constant booty call while he is questing to find his real love. You are nothing but a convenient pussy for him. Do you want to be that? Or, do you have more self-respect? |
Anonymous
| He's been blocked!!! Thank you |
Anonymous
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OP here- I didn't write that I can't. I think that was probably
Someone making fun of me for posting this thread. I just didn't understand why he was liking pictures, is he trying to talk to me again? Well good riddance loser, you Are now blocked! |
Anonymous
[b] Thank you for this post, OP here. Very helpful. |