How serious if he posts you as profile pic on FB?

[Anonymous]

A guy that I've been seeing for about a month posted a picture of us together as his profile pic. We aren't totally exclusive but neither of us is seeing other people. Does him doing so show how serious he is or am I over-thinking?

[Anonymous]

I think that he thinks that you are pretty serious.

[Anonymous]

It is serious. I would talk to him about it though. Do you want it to be serious? If not, I wouldn't be too happy about what he did.

[Anonymous]

If you guys are not exclusive, there might be some other pissed off women in his life right now.

[Anonymous]

You might also check his previous profile pics to see if he has any of them with other women. If he does and there are a lot of different women, you might get an idea about what his deal is.

[Anonymous]

We haven't talked about it. Part of me wants to break it off. He is possessive and I don't like that. There are no other women on there. We literally have been talking for only a month. After a week he wanted me to stop talking to other guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We haven't talked about it. Part of me wants to break it off. He is possessive and I don't like that. There are no other women on there. We literally have been talking for only a month. After a week he wanted me to stop talking to other guys.

RED FLAG! RED FLAG!

Please let that part of you that wants to break it off become ALL OF YOU! Listen to that inner voice. Respect it. Guys who want to isolate and control you are not guys you want to be with. End it now.

[Anonymous]

Did you make the sexy yet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you make the sexy yet?

Yes we have had sex already.

[Anonymous]

I think it really depends on the person. Does he often post pictures of himself and someone else as a profile picture? I've noticed that friend collectors tend to rotate their "profile pic +1" pretty regularly, to prove to the world how social and awesome they are.

But if he's not one of those types, then it's probably a good sign. However, possessiveness is a very very very bad sign.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We haven't talked about it. Part of me wants to break it off. He is possessive and I don't like that. There are no other women on there. We literally have been talking for only a month. After a week he wanted me to stop talking to other guys.

I would be more worried about this than the picture. I agree with PP, red flag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We haven't talked about it. Part of me wants to break it off. He is possessive and I don't like that. There are no other women on there. We literally have been talking for only a month. After a week he wanted me to stop talking to other guys.

Oh, you might have included this bit of information in the initial post! Please tell me that 99% is the part that wants to break it off. This guy is throwing out serious red flags, catch them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you make the sexy yet?

Yes we have had sex already.

Oy. When did you start to get bad vibes? Before or after this?

[Anonymous]

Yet another reason to not use Facebook.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you make the sexy yet?

Yes we have had sex already.

And it was after he told you to stop speaking to other men, right? Bad move OP. But you can salvage this: LEAVE. It's over. Move on.