Ears- does he only want sex?

[Anonymous]

I recently met this guy whom I have developed some interest in. We went out a coupe of times, had a good time, we flirt but never got physical (only normal hello and goodbye hugs, no kissing, no hand holding). I would call it hanging out but not dates. When we met last week over brunch, we had the usual goodbye hug but this time he hugged a bit longer than usual, and bended way over at me(I am 5'5 and he is super tall like 6'6 so very significant height diff) and turned his face so his moustache touched my ear and I could feel his breathing on my neck. When we pulled away we almost kissed but it was bright daylight and we both had separate plans after so it wasn't a bootycall at that point

The ear and neck are such erogenous areas and I thought could it be an accident but I haven't had such "accidents" with hugs before I doubted it. Anyway the question is, is this an invitation to a sex only relationship? Was he hinting at that? He asked me out again for drinks and frankly, if sex seem like his only agenda, I would cut him at this point as that's not what I am looking for

Appreciate some men's response? Would you do this to a girl if you are looking for something more serious?

[Anonymous]

Huh??????

[Anonymous]

No. Guys do not hug you in such a way that their facial hair touches your ear to hint that they want sex. You are nuts.

[Anonymous]

haahahahah you went out a couple of times with barely any physical contact, then his moustache touches your ears and all he wants is sex????
hahhaahah

[Anonymous]

I nearly swooned reading this.Perhaps it should get moved to the explicit forum?

I'd be careful. Moustachioed men rubbing ladies ears are only looking for such a woman that travels fast with her crowd.

[Anonymous]

Lol how old are you OP?

[Anonymous]

Don't read into it. Why hasn't anyone made any moves towards romantic affection?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I nearly swooned reading this.Perhaps it should get moved to the explicit forum?

I'd be careful. Moustachioed men rubbing ladies ears are only looking for such a woman that travels fast with her crowd.

PP was kidding, OP!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:turned his face so his moustache touched my ear and I could feel his breathing on my neck

Yuck.

[Anonymous]

If he's heterosexual. He wants sex. Dudes don't do brunch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I nearly swooned reading this.Perhaps it should get moved to the explicit forum?

I'd be careful. Moustachioed men rubbing ladies ears are only looking for such a woman that travels fast with her crowd.

PP was kidding, OP!

Was it the word swoon or moustachioed that gave it away?

[Anonymous]

This sounds like the beginning of my relationship with my husband. He's old-fashioned and wouldn't get physical with me for a while, (though it think at first he also wasn't that attracted to me). I think you can have a light and calm discussion about what you want and don't want, and ask him what his intentions are. It's not about being needy, you just want to know where things stand. Your time is valuable and you don't want to see it wasted. Rori Raye, while a bit corny, has some "scripts" that helped me express myself while I was building my relationship with my husband. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Was this post composed in the 1850s?

[Anonymous]

OP, you don't sound old enough to be going out with a man who has a mustache. Please seek your mother's advice ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I nearly swooned reading this.Perhaps it should get moved to the explicit forum?

I'd be careful. Moustachioed men rubbing ladies ears are only looking for such a woman that travels fast with her crowd.

This made me laugh.