Wasn't with enough people before marriage

[Anonymous]

I have come to the realization that I should have had more fun before marriage. My number of partners in total before marriage including DH is 5. Now I desperately wish I had more fun. Does anyone else feel like this?

[Anonymous]

5 partners doesn't seem so bad.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Dh is my second. I found a good one and locked it up. I had tons of fun despite not sleeping around.

[Anonymous]

How old are you OP? And how long married?

[Anonymous]

35. Married 11 yrs.

[Anonymous]

If you are sexually fulfilled the number doesn't matter.

So are you sexually happy?

[Incognita]

OP I'm 25 and DH is my second. My first was.. Well every typical of teenagers messing around lol, first doesn't seem to count in hindsight. I sometimes feel like this..

But not much you can do about it now so do to think about it.. If I'm still thinking about it at 35 as you are... Idk how I could still be with him

[Anonymous]

Have you spoken to your husband about this? If so what did you say? Is hour sexual relationship wirh him good?

[Anonymous]

OP, for every person in your shoes, there's another wishing that she hadn't screwed around as much.

[Anonymous]

Strange you should equate "fun" with "number of partners".

I only had DH. Got married at 23, and eleven years and two children later, don't regret anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Strange you should equate "fun" with "number of partners".

I only had DH. Got married at 23, and eleven years and two children later, don't regret anything.

Well, that's because she obviously isn't having any "fun" right now... duh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have come to the realization that I should have had more fun before marriage. My number of partners in total before marriage including DH is 5. Now I desperately wish I had more fun. Does anyone else feel like this?

Feel the same way. DH here, age 39, married 8 years and 11 partners before marriage. Any chance your husband would be up for swinging? I know a lot of married men that would be thrilled to get the chance for sex with someone other than their wife.

[Anonymous]

I think you are romanticizing what all this "fun" sex is really like.

You're married. Are you in love? Work on making the sex in your relationship the best it can be.

Find your "fun" elsewhere, get a hobby.

in other words -- grow up.

[Anonymous]

Are you my best friend? She just told me this today

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you are romanticizing what all this "fun" sex is really like.

You're married. Are you in love? Work on making the sex in your relationship the best it can be.

Find your "fun" elsewhere, get a hobby.

in other words -- grow up.

I am guessing you have a low sex drive or you must be a bad sex partner and had bad sex before marriage. I had lots of great sex with people pre-marriage and I miss the variety/novelty as do most people I know.