Bennifer Revisited

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Anonymous wrote:Ben Affleck could not handle the racist attacks against JLo and actually Jen G was way too good for him.

Anyways, two exes want to hook up, hang out ...how does it matter? They are celebs and BA is not any more horrible than ARod who is basically a tool.

Good for JLo to dump the cheating ARod. She is with BA for just rubbing ARod's face in the fact that she can get her jollies too. I think it is sweet for BA and JLo to be each other's FWB in the truest sense.

ARod was a step down for JLo but she did think that he would be a good partner. His whoring around was something that JLo would not tolerate. She has always been very wise about safeguarding her family, her heart and her career. She dumped PDiddy because of the gun violence without a thought. She is nobody's fool.

She is allowed to have some no-strings nostalgia sex with her ex, who happens to be an a-lister like her. Good for her. Other women should take a leaf out of JLo's life and not take any nonsense or shit from a man. If you cheat on JLo or are detrimental to her wellbeing, she is not a clingy person and can drop you.

And she is too hot to have to be alone. She is a Goddess and she can have as many men as she wants. Why should she be alone?

This is a weird take. Yes, she's hot and an adult and can have sex with whomever she wants. But it's pathetic that she hasn't been able to be single for even a week since her teens. You make it seem like like being comfortable in one's own company is something that ugly people settle for, as opposed to something that every adult person should be capable of, whatever they look like.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ben Affleck could not handle the racist attacks against JLo and actually Jen G was way too good for him.

Anyways, two exes want to hook up, hang out ...how does it matter? They are celebs and BA is not any more horrible than ARod who is basically a tool.

Good for JLo to dump the cheating ARod. She is with BA for just rubbing ARod's face in the fact that she can get her jollies too. I think it is sweet for BA and JLo to be each other's FWB in the truest sense.

ARod was a step down for JLo but she did think that he would be a good partner. His whoring around was something that JLo would not tolerate. She has always been very wise about safeguarding her family, her heart and her career. She dumped PDiddy because of the gun violence without a thought. She is nobody's fool.

She is allowed to have some no-strings nostalgia sex with her ex, who happens to be an a-lister like her. Good for her. Other women should take a leaf out of JLo's life and not take any nonsense or shit from a man. If you cheat on JLo or are detrimental to her wellbeing, she is not a clingy person and can drop you.

And she is too hot to have to be alone. She is a Goddess and she can have as many men as she wants. Why should she be alone?

This is a weird take. Yes, she's hot and an adult and can have sex with whomever she wants. But it's pathetic that she hasn't been able to be single for even a week since her teens. You make it seem like like being comfortable in one's own company is something that ugly people settle for, as opposed to something that every adult person should be capable of, whatever they look like.

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The point is that everyone is saying how terrible JLo is but Ben is not that much better!

I’ve seen a fair amount of Ben bashing in this board, some of which came from me. The difference is that I feel a bit sorry for Ben, while I don’t for Jlo. He’s a struggling alcoholic and his family has to suffer the consequences of that. Jlo is clearly motivated and ambitious, and doesn’t suffer from any obvious addiction or mental health issues, so what’s her excuse for being an absent parent and generally parading around with a new bf a week after ending a prior engagement? It seems kind of pathetic all around, particularly at their ages, but for her it just seems more deliberate and desperate. The irony of seeming desperate when your with Ben affleck is not lost on me.

Good point. I now think she does have mental health issues.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Ben Affleck could not handle the racist attacks against JLo and actually Jen G was way too good for him.

Anyways, two exes want to hook up, hang out ...how does it matter? They are celebs and BA is not any more horrible than ARod who is basically a tool.

Good for JLo to dump the cheating ARod. She is with BA for just rubbing ARod's face in the fact that she can get her jollies too. I think it is sweet for BA and JLo to be each other's FWB in the truest sense.

ARod was a step down for JLo but she did think that he would be a good partner. His whoring around was something that JLo would not tolerate. She has always been very wise about safeguarding her family, her heart and her career. She dumped PDiddy because of the gun violence without a thought. She is nobody's fool.

She is allowed to have some no-strings nostalgia sex with her ex, who happens to be an a-lister like her. Good for her. Other women should take a leaf out of JLo's life and not take any nonsense or shit from a man. If you cheat on JLo or are detrimental to her wellbeing, she is not a clingy person and can drop you.

And she is too hot to have to be alone. She is a Goddess and she can have as many men as she wants. Why should she be alone?

This is a weird take. Yes, she's hot and an adult and can have sex with whomever she wants. But it's pathetic that she hasn't been able to be single for even a week since her teens. You make it seem like like being comfortable in one's own company is something that ugly people settle for, as opposed to something that every adult person should be capable of, whatever they look like.

+1

Agree, she's setting a terrible example for her kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Love seeing the pics of these two popping up everywhere. What a great, refreshing story for this couple.

Like 2 teenagers with no responsibilities in this world...oh, wait! They have children. Oh, well! Let them see firsthand how to jump from bed to bed with different people with no commitments.

Oh please they are very obviously in love, yes even if they *gasp* have kids.

Anyway I saw a source in In Touch saying this is what the kids want

Last we heard, the kids "loved" that J Lo and A Rod were a blended family. It's a PR spin to put a positive spin on beginning a new relationship and going off for weekends so soon after the breakup of a supposedly almost married couple. Maybe in your world, parents act like this. It's not a loving, responsible way to parent.

The In Touch source is Jen’s PR firm. Of course they’re saying this is what the kids want, it makes a better story! No kid goes from loving mom’s boyfriend and his kids one minute to wanting mom to be with someone else the next. Watch- you won’t see quotes about Ben’s kids and they’ll never meet JLo bc Jen Gardner knows this is all for PR and isn’t going to allow her kids to come anywhere near this hot mess.

Oof. I wonder what Jennifer Gardner and Ben Affleck‘s phone conversations have been like lately.

If she's smart, and I think she is, she's not addressing it since it will be over in a matter of months.

She's probably busy trying to unstick her eye roll.

no doubt

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The point is that everyone is saying how terrible JLo is but Ben is not that much better!

I’ve seen a fair amount of Ben bashing in this board, some of which came from me. The difference is that I feel a bit sorry for Ben, while I don’t for Jlo. He’s a struggling alcoholic and his family has to suffer the consequences of that. Jlo is clearly motivated and ambitious, and doesn’t suffer from any obvious addiction or mental health issues, so what’s her excuse for being an absent parent and generally parading around with a new bf a week after ending a prior engagement? It seems kind of pathetic all around, particularly at their ages, but for her it just seems more deliberate and desperate. The irony of seeming desperate when your with Ben affleck is not lost on me.

Good point. I now think she does have mental health issues.

Nice, so the mental illness of addiction garners sympathy, but whatever is going on with JLo isn't visible or tragic enough for you so you can just hate her. Good mental gymnastics. He's hurting people. She is not.

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Anonymous wrote:Love seeing the pics of these two popping up everywhere. What a great, refreshing story for this couple.

Like 2 teenagers with no responsibilities in this world...oh, wait! They have children. Oh, well! Let them see firsthand how to jump from bed to bed with different people with no commitments.

Oh please they are very obviously in love, yes even if they *gasp* have kids.

Anyway I saw a source in In Touch saying this is what the kids want

Last we heard, the kids "loved" that J Lo and A Rod were a blended family. It's a PR spin to put a positive spin on beginning a new relationship and going off for weekends so soon after the breakup of a supposedly almost married couple. Maybe in your world, parents act like this. It's not a loving, responsible way to parent.

The In Touch source is Jen’s PR firm. Of course they’re saying this is what the kids want, it makes a better story! No kid goes from loving mom’s boyfriend and his kids one minute to wanting mom to be with someone else the next. Watch- you won’t see quotes about Ben’s kids and they’ll never meet JLo bc Jen Gardner knows this is all for PR and isn’t going to allow her kids to come anywhere near this hot mess.

Oof. I wonder what Jennifer Gardner and Ben Affleck‘s phone conversations have been like lately.

If she's smart, and I think she is, she's not addressing it since it will be over in a matter of months.

She's probably busy trying to unstick her eye roll.

no doubt

I'm sure she finds it ridiculous but it doesn't make her parenting job any easier. Not that Ben ever has. Imagine having to explain daddy's new lover to kids old enough to read about it online.

[Anonymous]

I do feel bad for her, because she clearly does have issues she has never worked through. They are glaringly obvious as they are out in the open for all to see. But she is probably surrounded by people who fawn over her and will never tell her that she has issues.

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Anonymous wrote:The point is that everyone is saying how terrible JLo is but Ben is not that much better!

I’ve seen a fair amount of Ben bashing in this board, some of which came from me. The difference is that I feel a bit sorry for Ben, while I don’t for Jlo. He’s a struggling alcoholic and his family has to suffer the consequences of that. Jlo is clearly motivated and ambitious, and doesn’t suffer from any obvious addiction or mental health issues, so what’s her excuse for being an absent parent and generally parading around with a new bf a week after ending a prior engagement? It seems kind of pathetic all around, particularly at their ages, but for her it just seems more deliberate and desperate. The irony of seeming desperate when your with Ben affleck is not lost on me.

Good point. I now think she does have mental health issues.

Nice, so the mental illness of addiction garners sympathy, but whatever is going on with JLo isn't visible or tragic enough for you so you can just hate her. Good mental gymnastics. He's hurting people. She is not.

They are both hurting people, primarily their children, however only one of them called off an engagement to someone who her kids were personally close to, and immediately abandoned them to galavant across cities with an ex of questionable stability (that person is Jlo.) neither of them are going to win parent of the year, but at least Bens kids have a present parent in Jennifer garner. Who’s parenting jlos kids? It doesn’t seem like Marc Anthony is there 24/7 while she’s off working and being with Ben. We hate on her because she seems like a materialistic narcissist with poor values. There’s no mental gymnastics. She clearly doesn’t struggle from a long term addiction like Ben affleck does, which doesn’t give him a free pass, but at least explains his erratic behavior.

[Anonymous]

Diddy is trolling. He posted this today.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPYlPgHH0As/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Diddy is trolling. He posted this today.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPYlPgHH0As/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

That's a funny way of saying 'Diddy is desperate and horny'.

His baby mama died suddenly in 2019 leaving him to raise 3 girls by himself, the same year the woman he strung along for a decade - Cassie - got married to a new flame and is now happily raising his two children. Meanwhile Jennifer is back with her old flame and all over the news about it?

He's alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Diddy is trolling. He posted this today.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPYlPgHH0As/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This was predicted in a Blind. https://blindgossip.com/the-competition/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Diddy is trolling. He posted this today.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPYlPgHH0As/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

He’s not trolling, he’s making sure that Jennifer understands that she has options.

[Anonymous]

So funny this thread. All these suburban harpies calling two hugely talented, gorgeous multi-millionaires "pathetic"

Sure, just put it on repeat, someone will listen...

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer is a lost cause. She never felt worthy given her background and despite her immense wealth and fame, never feels like sh measures up. Ben was her ticket to "the other side" one which never accepted her. Heck even his own mom would not acknowledge Jennifer Lopez.

To me, she is a sad woman. Putting her own selfish needs above those of her kids who no doubt are getting screwed up because of their mom behaving in a way lets say moms should to behave. I feel sorry for them.

Ben was never into her. So clear to see.

She picked and charted her path, which was guided by her days with P Diddy and his influence. And it worked for her. So the fact that a Boston Brahman like Affleck's mother was not thrilled is not surprising. No one is accepted by everyone. She's uneducated and she had been married before, is incredibly high maintenance and that's how it goes.

+1 beautiful and sexy but not a classy lady

Ugh, why? This is all leaning hard into west side story territory.... class does not equate with whiteness, or rather it shouldn't

PP here. I'm referring to behavior, not skin color.

I’m with you. I’m not a JLo fan or hater, I’m generally neutral on her. However, the way JLo acts (her SuperBowl halftime act, for example), is NOT classy. Bringing a string of men through your kids’ lives, including men who have had known drug addictions and frequent prostitute visits, is not classy. I’m just your regular UMC mom and I would not be excited if my boys brought someone like JLO home. I don’t care what races or ethnicities they date. One of my sons has a Hispanic gf and she’s lovely and has way more class than JLo.