In what ways would you be considered trashy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love beer
Shop consignment stores for my kids
Went to public schools growing up
Order McDonald’s via doordash
Do my own taxes
Enjoy anal

The last one!!!!!!
Def trashy!

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

It’s fine, I’m an insular American. Not gonna sit naked in a hot tub with my friends and acquaintances. All alone, or with my husband, sounds great.

[Anonymous]

1. We moved to Florida. Central Florida!
2. I wear shorts and tanks 90% of the time.
3. I loved scented candles and plug ins.
4. My kids went to state colleges.
5. I’m a witch.
6. I drink Dr Pepper every day.
7. We love fast food.
8. I shop at Walmart and Target (but Publix for groceries, of course).
9. We have two dogs and two cats. And a snake.
10. We prefer to vacation in country.
11. My boys played football through high school.
12. We have a four wheeler.
13. I cook lots of casseroles. My family loves them!
14. I was born in Mississippi. I have a southern accent. 36 members of my family graduated from Ole Miss.
15. SEC football is a religion. We party every Saturday in the fall.
16. I had my kids in my 20s. I became a grandmother for the first time at 46.

No. No one in the family is even slightly overweight. We are fairly wealthy. I don’t consider any of the above behaviors “trashy” in the real world. These are just dcum trashy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:O.C. MD

I swear like a sailor

I live in tanks and joggers

Yellow gold

My faux leather purse cost $25.

My sneakers have a hole on top, so I magic marker the toe of my socks to hide it lol.

The magic marker part is my favorite!!

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Anonymous wrote:I wear a two-piece at the community pool. And I'm not rail thin.

Bless your heart you have confidence few people have anymore.

I for one has my nipples pierced at age 48, and don’t often wear a bra,
the piercing clearly visible under many of my outfits including swimwear.
I prefer to drive my Subaru Outback to your BMW. Our other car is a Jeep Wrangler
Panties are no longer my thing, commando is far more comfortable.
DH and I sleep naked.
We have a hot tub in our yard and don’t allow bathing suits to be worn in it.

People can think what they want about us, but we are happy and will continue
to do our own thing, whether you or others think it’s trashy or not!!

You force your guests to be naked in your hot tub? How very rapey of you.

Understandably the homeowners don't want the detergents/chemicals/oils/chlorine from the swimsuit fabric in
their hot tub - it has nothing to do with being 'rapey' is that even a word?

We have a similar rule for hot tub use in our home. It has nothing to do with sex, its about cleanliness. Have you
ever maintained a hot tub? Unless cared for properly and the water treated, a hot tub is the breeding ground for a
multitude of bacteria and organisms. Those bubbles you see floating on the surface of a hot tub are body oils, lotions,
and other chemicals/detergents that are carried into the bubbling hot water. A showered "naked" person is cleaner
than a person wearing a swimsuit. We have a shower near the hot tub for people to use.

Guests in our home understand our hot tub use policy, and if they feel differently, they are under no
obligation to get in the hot tub. They are welcome to enjoy the pool and sauna wearing their swimsuits.We have
no children living in our home, and 99.9% of our guests are child free as well. This is about adults being adults.

Really? So you sit in your hot tub naked with your naked friends? This is fascinating to me.

What is that you find fascinating about social nudity? Adults being adults

Sometimes I feel like DCUM is so insular. Have you never been to Japan, Korea, or Scandinavia? There's tons of public nudity in their hot tubs/springs and saunas. It's not seen as sexual at all--families are nude in front of each other, colleagues as well. It's just.a.body.

It’s fine, I’m an insular American. Not gonna sit naked in a hot tub with my friends and acquaintances. All alone, or with my husband, sounds great.

Totally agree. I've been to those places; I'm still American. Not sitting nude! I still used a towel to protect MY modesty in those places too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met my husband when I first hired him as an escort. We eventually became exclusive and he stopped working as an escort.

Does anyone know? Werent you bothered by his profession?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love beer
Shop consignment stores for my kids
Went to public schools growing up
Order McDonald’s via doordash
Do my own taxes
Enjoy anal

The last one!!!!!!
Def trashy!

What if it's a man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I love beer
Shop consignment stores for my kids
Went to public schools growing up
Order McDonald’s via doordash
Do my own taxes
Enjoy anal

The last one!!!!!!
Def trashy!

What if it's a man?

Increasingly common for both sexes to enjoy. No shame.

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

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There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. We moved to Florida. Central Florida!
2. I wear shorts and tanks 90% of the time.
3. I loved scented candles and plug ins.
4. My kids went to state colleges.
5. I’m a witch.
6. I drink Dr Pepper every day.
7. We love fast food.
8. I shop at Walmart and Target (but Publix for groceries, of course).
9. We have two dogs and two cats. And a snake.
10. We prefer to vacation in country.
11. My boys played football through high school.
12. We have a four wheeler.
13. I cook lots of casseroles. My family loves them!
14. I was born in Mississippi. I have a southern accent. 36 members of my family graduated from Ole Miss.
15. SEC football is a religion. We party every Saturday in the fall.
16. I had my kids in my 20s. I became a grandmother for the first time at 46.

No. No one in the family is even slightly overweight. We are fairly wealthy. I don’t consider any of the above behaviors “trashy” in the real world. These are just dcum trashy.

What? Lots of those things are trashy, esp 3,6,7,12, and definitely 16!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. We moved to Florida. Central Florida!
2. I wear shorts and tanks 90% of the time.
3. I loved scented candles and plug ins.
4. My kids went to state colleges.
5. I’m a witch.
6. I drink Dr Pepper every day.
7. We love fast food.
8. I shop at Walmart and Target (but Publix for groceries, of course).
9. We have two dogs and two cats. And a snake.
10. We prefer to vacation in country.
11. My boys played football through high school.
12. We have a four wheeler.
13. I cook lots of casseroles. My family loves them!
14. I was born in Mississippi. I have a southern accent. 36 members of my family graduated from Ole Miss.
15. SEC football is a religion. We party every Saturday in the fall.
16. I had my kids in my 20s. I became a grandmother for the first time at 46.

No. No one in the family is even slightly overweight. We are fairly wealthy. I don’t consider any of the above behaviors “trashy” in the real world. These are just dcum trashy.

What? Lots of those things are trashy, esp 3,6,7,12, and definitely 16!

you're stupid

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

If you have to ask, don't worry about it. NBD.

I'm not worried about it. I'm just curious as to why people have an issue with drinking out of the can. No one seems to have any explanation.

+1
There really isn't one like pretty much this entire thread. People's definition of trashy here are so random. And don't get me started on the "anything remotely not associated with UMC/wealthy is trashy" sentiment found throughout this thread. Some DCUMers have a huge inferiority complex about social class and they don't realize it makes them look desperate vs. classy.
BTW, From a random google search, the definition of trashy:adjective. tastelessly showy. synonyms: brassy, cheap, flash, flashy, garish, gaudy, gimcrack, loud, meretricious, tacky, tatty, tawdry tasteless.

A lot of people on DCUM seem to have petite bourgeoisie tendencies. From this thread, there seems to be a lot of "My God, what will the neighbors think?!!!" (to which the answer should be, who cares what the neighbors think?). For a supposedly educated and well-traveled group of people, there is a surprising tendency of provincialism and parochialism.

I mean, there are people here who are scandalized by two piece bikinis at the pool, and tattoos on people. But the disapproval about drinking out of a soda can is head-scratching to me.

What if the well travelled and educated group of people are 300lbs?

Morbid obesity is trashy.

- and don’t give us the BS “well, maybe it’s a thyroid condition?”

Morbidly obese people eat too much. Period.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:10- Our lawn is usually 1-2 week past where it should be for grass cutting.
9- We often leave our garbage cans at the street an extra day beyong trash day (this is my kids’ faukt. actually, so is the above.)
8- I let my grey roots grow in fully visibly before re-coloring. And, I do said coloring myself.
7- We go through the McDonalds drive thru about once every 2 weeks.
6- We drink generic brand soda and use generic paper goods.
5- The whole family shops at Old Navy.
4- I carry a canvas tote bag instead of a purse.
3- We have a mutt instead of an allergyfree designer doodle.
2- Our kids went to daycare instead of preschool.
And the number 1 reason — We vacation in the OBX (and love it).

I call my golden doodle/Bernese Mountain dog a mutt because she is one.

A mutt is unknown pedigree. Your dog is a cross-breed - 2 breeds specifically bred together. Some might say even higher maintenance than a purebreed 😂.