WWYD- My coworker drives me INSANE!
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Anonymous
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She is from a teeny tiny poor town in upstate NY. Her parents never went to college. She has barely traveled anywhere. There's nothing wrong with that but...
Since relocating to DC (originally as a nanny) and marrying some guy she met on the internet, she thinks she has made it big. All she talks about is shopping. She acts like she's so oozing with money. She drives a leased BMW SUV. She said proudly one day, I mean... my husband makes a lot of money... almost $100k! We work together as secretaries so I know she's not bringing much $$ to the table. She lives in a dilapidated TH in Bethesda. She only spends money on clothes, cars...things that make her appear outwardly "wealthy". I went to lunch with her one day and she legit took the bread from the bread basket and put it in her purse. And then tipped the valet with dimes!!! Clearly she had never been to a nice restaurant before and was totally clueless. During lunch she bragged about her weekend shopping extravaganzas... and how she picked out the *perfect* new blah blah blah... I want to scream STOP TRYING SO HARD! Just act like a real person. Own your background, live within your means, talk about a variety of things (not just material sh*t). You are not rich! I know you're in debt up to your eyeballs trying to continue this charade... WWYD??? I don't know how much longer I can tolerate this... |
Anonymous
| Find new lunch and office buddies. Problem solved. |
Anonymous
| Troll. |
Anonymous
| OP here, I wish I could find new buddies... small office. Is there a way to politely say how I feel?? |
Anonymous
| OMG. What town in Upstate NY? My whole family is from there and I had flashbacks reading your post. |
Anonymous
NO here. How would this be a troll? |
Anonymous
| Think about how a sociopath would handle this situation. And then do that. But only if it doesn't't hurt anyone. |
Anonymous
Forget the name... Somewhere north of Buffalo... |
Anonymous
Huh? |
Anonymous
That would be Canada. Canada is north of Buffalo. |
Anonymous
| Humor her and don't let it get to you. Who cares if she lives in a fantasy world where she is rich? You can't control others but you can control your reactions. |
Anonymous
| she is rich compared to most people in the world. let her be happy with that. her debt is not your concern. her shopping is not your concern. just go out with her once a week and talk fashion. this area is totally twisted when $100,000 isn't alot of money. in most of the world it is wealth. leave the poor girl alone and stop judging. |
Anonymous
40 miles separates Buffalo from Lake Ontario... |
Anonymous
| This is hurting you how? Sounds like your just envious of her happiness. Here's a free tip, doesn't matter how much money you make. Feeling rich is, well, a feeling. A multimillionaire can feel poor and someone making 35k can feel rich. |
Anonymous
| I work in a very small office and only go out with coworkers twice a year. It's not a requirement. |