Curious if you have another explanation? It’s not anti-abortion (for the b-a-a-a-b-I-e-s) if they are against birth control, no fault divorce and gun control for domestic abusers. |
DP. I think it's more complex than just misogyny. It's about maintaining the patriarchy and re-establishing men (white men more specifically) as the "natural" leaders in business, government, academia. And I don't think all men are conscious of this/are pro-actively working in favor of it. But that doesn't mean it's not there. One thing you don't really hear discussed is the effect of the birth control pill on women's lives and that prior to that time "barefoot and pregnant" was a joke, but it wasn't entirely a joke. We don't talk about the fact that sexual dynamics, even within marriage, were skewed towards men's rights over women. If you can't control your fertility, and you can't entirely control when you have sex/can have it forced on you and then society mandates that you take care of the resulting child, then you were really trapped. Don't forget that 50 years ago women could not routinely have their own bank accounts, couldn't get credit, etc. either. If you want a time capsule of what the pill meant to women, and thus what it would mean to men to take it away, take a listen: |
Again, you’re just describing the many layers of misogyny. |
Wow. You've really added a lot to the discussion here. Thanks. |
Hey you’re welcome. I guess I just don’t see the point in a long, accurate description of the exact flavors of misogyny that lead people to support forced birther policies and then claim it’s not misogyny. The flavor you describe is entirely about keeping women subservient to men and it’s because they literally do not think women are worth an equal amount of respect and rights. Not sure how I should engage with it. You described misogyny. |
NP here. This is a lot of words to describe misogyny. It’s really not that complicated. I’m not sure why you are so allergic to the term. Identifying and naming something correctly will help us confront the matter. |
No. It is absolutely necessary to describe misogyny in all its flavors and just how deep down horrifying it is. It’s more than “men hate women.” I’m sure all those men screaming vitriol to women with doomed pregnancies outside abortion clinics claim they LOVE women and just want to protect them from making decisions they might regret. They are still misogynistic a-holes for assuming women can’t make decisions and need their protection. |
Do they even claim that? All I ever hear is that they want to protect the unborn — even at the expense of living, sentient women. |
Well, they used to, in that “If you die in childbirth, Jesus will welcome you and your baby home, so at least you don’t have to live in sin and regret little lady” kind of way. I think they’ve caught on that paternalism doesn’t play well, even when delivered by a smiling white guy, and have gone straight to the “stone the Jezebel” mentality that was there all along. |
Travel to the conservative subreddit. You don’t have to scratch hard to find contempt for women. And actually there are leagues more subtle ways that misogyny, including internalized misogyny, is expressed. I have a friend who would never consider herself to be a misogynist but who prefers male-created TV, movies, music and art. If a person always only ever prefers male created art, I think that says something. And I don’t know if anyone remembers the Guerilla Girls movement (still active, apparently. I didn’t know!): “do women have to be naked to get into the Met Museum?” |
I respect them and Im not a Democrat, liberal nor progressive. How can you stereotype Republicans this way? |
The party of personal responsibility has to take responsibility for their policy positions. They have an actual record, they advocate for very real policy. That’s not stereotyping, that’s just pointing out the obvious. |
That’s what it is really all about. Punishing women. Look at them protecting IVF - it’s not really about embryos. They truly just want to punish “bad” women who don’t follow their rules. |
Sometimes I wonder if they’re just trying to maximize the number of offspring they can produce. |
+1 Women aren’t people in the GOP. We’re pawns. Hell some of them, the Creationists among them, still refer to Eve as if she were a literal human woman who 1) owes her existence to Adam and 2) ruined the earth for which women must be punished in perpetuity. |