Is she being inappropriate?
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Anonymous
| We are pretty good friends with a family that lives a couple of houses down the street. We're in our early 30s and they in late 40s. The wife is a SAHM and I see her every morning as I walk our dog before I leave for work (my alone time). She's always wearing workout clothes and is always very friendly. Over the last few weeks she's been sending me emails about fairly innocuous things but recently about the World Cup etc (she knows i like soccer). I feel a bit icky replying since my wife and her husband aren't included in the thread and I get a desperate HW vibe from her. Also feel weird because her husband is in Germany & then Geneva for the next 2 weeks for work and I wonder if she's "lonely". |
Anonymous
| Should have thought of the potential "uncomfortableness" before giving her your email. |
Anonymous
| I'd politely keep her at arm's length, but she may honestly just be bored and want a friend. |
Anonymous
| Yes, she's being inappropriate. I might reply to her and include your wife on the email and say something like, "great article! DW loves soccer, too, so added her on here so she could read it too." Make sure you let your wife know your concerns about this chick so it's clear you aren't encouraging it. |
Anonymous
| In OPs defense, it would have been rude to refuse giving her his email if she asked. |
Anonymous
| Im pretty tired and have some brain fog but what is she doing that may be inappropriate?? I don't get it. |
Anonymous
She has my email because we use evite for parties. |
Anonymous
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You can't be serious. What a moronic post.
Workout clothes? She must be trying to bang you. She couldn't possibly just be....working out. 
Yes, who talks about soccer? It's only because you're interested in it--she could't possibly have any interest herself. Are you always this conceited? |
Anonymous
Since when is emailing someone about soccer inappropriate? Idiots. |
Anonymous
That's because there is nothing to get. OP thinks someone who is sending him innoucuous emails while wearing workout clothing is being innapropriate and coming on to him. |
Anonymous
| OP here. Well I am handsome and i get hit on women all the time. That being said, I find it weird that a married woman would start an email conversation with me and keep it going back and forth. Also she's been a bit "fun" at a party when she was drunk and suggested that we go to the bars. |
Anonymous
| OR she could just want to be your friend and get along with men better than women. Why do guys think that just because a woman talks to you she's hitting on you? Or because she's a SAHM she maybe very lonely and may love talking to someone else. Please give her the benefit of the doubt until she proves you otherwise. She knows your married. |
Anonymous
| I would forward the email to the police. If she goes psycho it is very important you have documented everything. |
Anonymous
| If you're smart you'll let your wife be the judge of her appropriateness and not "hide" the vibe you're getting or the anxiety your neighbor is causing. When the shit hits the fan your wife being privy to everything will save you a lot of grief. |
Anonymous
Aren't you charming. I think it's inappropriate to email with someone else's husband who you aren't great friends with. I wouldn't appreciate if my neighbor's wife started emailing my husband regularly about various topics of interest for him. She likely isn't coming onto him but if it makes him uncomfortable, then it's inappropriate enough that he should send a polite, clear message that he doesn't want to communicate one-on-one w her. |