I am a working class parent of a child that attends a highly demanded public DC Charter School. A school that is sought out by thousands of parents, has long waiting lists, and is the subject of much debate on DCUMD forums. My children have been in several high demand public schools for over 10 years.
I'd like to share a bit about my experience if you are considering sending your child to a highly demanded public school. I am a parent that: Finished college; Has a thankless job, pays taxes; Takes no government income subsidy to feed my family; and Is far from wealthy in any form. With that out of the way, here it goes. At high demand public charter schools, there is a clear understanding that the only families that have a real voice are the wealthy families. They can afford the $2,000-$10,000 donations that quietly roll in. The wealthy families are the ones that can afford the high priced auxiliary programs. The wealthy families are the ones that are not impacted by school being closed on odd days in the middle of the week, or consistently with week long breaks in instruction. The donations and social leverage of these families ensure that their children are chosen for extra perks, special activities, and instruction. It also puts added pressure on the public teachers at the school to give their children high marks on subjective assessment scales. The children of working parents are relegated to being tracked in "meeting the standard" or "below standard", as it compares to their wealthy peers, who many times supplement instruction with private tutoring. At a private school, the wealthy charter school children would be one of many with parents of status and influence. The majority of children would have access to private tutoring. The majority of children may summer in exotic locations and have elevated points of reference. Competition to shine would be high; they would actually have to work hard to stand out. Alternatively, at the high demand public charter school, children of the wealthy and almost wealthy easily stand out in stark contrast to their lower class peers. Wealthy parents are recognized as "pioneers", "friends of public education","school reformers", and "parent organization leaders". But many are really attention seekers using public education to save money and to generate their own personal relevance. Listservs are abundant at these schools coupled with a clear understanding that a large portion of the school's parents may not have regular internet or technology access. In a way the gentrification we see in real estate has a parallel model to what we see in the charter school movement; looks good from the outside, but on the inside, the marginalization of the economic classes is apparent. Like H Street, it might look a lot nicer, but the working people who always lived their can now no longer afford to eat there. And the high demand charter school is an expensive place to eat. The average cost of private tutoring runs from $30-$50 dollars per hour. Most parents that can afford to pay for private tutoring do so, and offset the public charter school's arbitrary instruction. As many these schools do not receive Title I funds, they are known for hiring teachers with little classroom experience to save money. Your lower income DS or DD will still have just as much chance of having that fresh out of school teacher as any other public school in DC. Be advised that the poorer kids will be routed to the inexperienced teacher a lot quicker than the rich ones will. High performing charter schools are under little to no scrutiny by outsiders; they ride off the testing performance of the rich kids as if the school is producing/instructing at a higher level. In turn, they are not required to ensure academic assistance pathways for students, unless the student is one to two grades below level or on FARMS. Low income parent (45-65K), be wary. There is no guarantee that just because your child attends the high demand school that they are truly being taught by highly qualified and capable educators on a daily basis. At times, you will find that your concerns are responded to with arrogance and be tinged with an undercurrent of apathy. You will definitely hear the phrases, "We are a school of choice." and "Well if you don't like what we are doing, go to your neighborhood school." Do not make the mistake of believing that you just won the golden ticket because your child's name was chosen in the charter school lottery for a high demand charter school. A good school is one where your child can feel physically, socially, and emotionally safe to open themselves up for learning. A great school is one that can provide the environment of a good school, while simultaneously providing well thought out pathways that push every student to their highest potential, regardless of income. You will have to do the same child advocacy work that you may have expected at a poorer performing school; but without the wraparound services that a poorer performing school would have to provide, due to increased outside versight. Just keep that in mind. Would I have done anything differently over these ten years? Yes. I think I would have read this post and kept its points in mind. ![]() |
Thank you for sharing. |
Meh. what's new here? |
You are wonderful. Sincerely, a working class DCPS teacher. |
Agreed and impressed on multiple fronts, but -- do you regret it? Is there a different/better option for your child? I am in a similar situation, just accepted into top charter school and thrilled about it, despite some serious doubts. Would my (or your) child be better off in the struggling neighborhood DCPS that is actually doing a good job of educating a wide range of kids with little fanfare or self-congratulation? Sincere question. I wonder if we are choosing right for our own child in this situation. |
OP, I hear you. But at the end of the day, isn't it really about the quality of education your child is getting? If you go over to the Private School forum, you will hear many of the same concerns: the school seems to value the wealthy families more, I don't fit in, my kid doesn't vacation at ski resorts like the other kids.
But at the end of the day, no school, private or public, is going to be able to put all families on the same financial footing. The best we can do is accept that we may not be the financial/status equals of some of the other families, and swallow any bitterness with the thought that you're giving your kid an education that will allow him/her to start closing this gap. |
Awesome defeatist attitude you got there.
Want to make sure your kid gets the right teacher? Speak up, be persistent and show up. PTA meetings, events. Take the time and go. If the principal blows you off, appeal to the next person and keep going. If they refer you to someone else, contact them and follow up. Want tutoring for your kid? Plenty of resources for low income kids to get tutoring. Lots of liberal over educated do -gooders volunteer to tutor. Be involved in the tutoring. learn to tutor your own kid. Forget DCUM and look up info on afterschooling. Find local resources. Spend a $100 for the year on an online program. Apply to summer programs that offer FA - Sidwell, GDS, other privates, all offer this. Fill out the form, follow up and be persistent. |
PP teacher here. I think we need to take into account the culture of socialization that happens to children in these settings. I remember being a working class student who went on to attend a "prestigious" private college, with mostly affluent peers. During my schooling, I was made to feel like less than a human being because I didn't have money, and felt an even greater sense of isolation because I knew that I was slowly making strides towards attaining a middle class ascendancy, effectively distancing myself from the experiences of my working class family. That sense of isolation was and continues to be painful, and I can't imagine what it must feel like as an elementary age child. How many concessions must someone be willing to make until it stops being okay for a school to operate under this existing power structure? |
I feel sorry for your children. |
Your unvarnished take is bracing. Thank you, OP.
We've been taking the charter lottery every year and this makes us a feel a lot better about where we are. (From affluent parent actively contributing to a non-Ward 3 DCPS neighborhood school.) |
I'm sure it was painful for you, and is now painful for OP. But it isn't very practical, or helpful, to post on the Internet your vague wishes that the "power structure" (economic stratification) would simply go away. I share your wishes, but I doubt the 1% is going to give up its power any time soon. As a teacher, you might have some practical advice for OP. |
I was simply posting this on a forum because it was brought up in the context of a discussion forum, so I actually think what I said is helpful and relevant. In term of providing practical advice, I would tell OP to organize with the other working class parents at the school because I highly doubt her experience is an isolated one. As well, I'm sure there are other working class teachers, or people who have experienced some sort of marginalization in their life that understand the perspective of the OP. Seek out those people and teachers, and have your student develop relationships with those individuals. They will be his/her strength when you're not immediately around. Prepare your child for the harsh reality of what it means to be a low income student in a student body of affluence, but do not let your child be silenced or made to feel ashamed. Give them the critical lens that will allow him/her to advocate on his/her own behalf, especially when their own school is engaging in some shady practices. |
WTF did I just read |
+1. Yawn Someone has a BIG chip on their shoulders. |
Interesting. We are economically where you are ($45-65k income), at a charter with relatively few FARMS.
I haven't really seen a lot of the issues you're describing come up, but my kids are still young. It will be interesting to see if kids in upper grades have tutors, etc. Obviously our family is not taking vacations to Europe or whatever like some of the other families are, but neither are we at a school where $2,000-$10,000 donations are typical. I do see that a lot of assumptions are made about SES at our school. People just assume that you can afford whatever summer camp or class or dinner out or whatever and I have had many awkward moments over those discussions. Anyway, thanks for posting. It will be interesting to see how things go as my kids get older. |