Downsizing with kids (in our case, just one)

[Anonymous]

We are considering leaving our single family home and getting a good-size 3 bedroom condo. We have a toddler, and will not have more kids. Has anyone else made this kind of transition? Regrets, or joys? It would mean I could go part-time and be with my son, it would ensure against possible job loss (a reality for lawyers like me these days), it would be a lot less upkeep and maintenance (something is breaking in our 1950s home all the time). But it is the opposite of the trend to go to a bigger space with a yard after you've got kids. I'm inclined to do it, husband is hesitant. Will we have no sense of community? No other kids to play with? Husband asked me to check with the DCUM huddled masses.

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on where you buy. Perhaps a good real estate agent can point you to family friendly communities.

Your plan sounds wonderful. I wish I had the guts to do it.

[Anonymous]

We live in a condo. We have a 6 yr old child and will not have anymore kids. There is a wonderful sense of community -- lots of social events in the condo, and some families with young kids (although most have kids below age 3). My daughter has made a friend in the building though - another girl, age 8. The drawback is that there are very few kids overall. The positives -- easy maintenance, close to restaurants, close to metro, walkable community, no need for car lots of the time, close to the park, gym and pool in the building. I do miss a house sometimes, but I love the relatively stress free aspects of condo living. I make sure to arrange many playdates, so my DD is not missing out on friends/community. Good luck!