So you think schools shouldn’t deliver meals? And should not accept homeless kids or kids with behavioral problems? |
I don’t think this is easy to understand if you are not actually in a classroom. The teacher who described the challenges above was talking about kids with extreme needs. There are kids who for whatever reason have no family support at home and they don’t function well in large classrooms. Yet they are placed there because the school district doesn’t know what to do. They threaten the teacher and other kids. They walk in and walk out whenever they want. Often they get high during lunch and are completely stoned in class. I have sympathy for them because they obviously have past and present trauma. But no one at my school knows how to handle them and they drift around causing havoc. Maybe y’all will just roll your eyes and don’t care but this is a reason why schools in ward 8 have so much teacher turnover. Deal and Wilson are not immune either. |
Ok again, I am not denying these issues or the LACK of support. I'm questioning what other people mean when they say "we expect too much from schools in the US, schools should not be social service providers." what exactly does that mean? What you are saying is that you need MORE support at school, not less. |
+1 |
People are trying to explain that when you expect schools to do everything, the quality of education goes down for all kids. This is why k-12 public schools in the US are not well regarded internationally. This is why all the elite send their kids to private schools. Schools are vastly under-resourced for what they are expected to do. And parents don’t respect teachers here for some reason so they are happy to blame them for all the school issues. |
I think what some of us are saying is that the kids with the extreme needs who cannot function in a socialized way in large classrooms need to be pulled out into smaller classroom settings where they get intensive intervention, and then sent to residential treatment programs if they cannot make it in the contained environment. Because that is the trajectory that functional parents with dysfunctional teens pursue in order to try to get their kids back on track. The answer is NOT to leave the anti-social kids floundering in the regular classroom and destroying the learning environment for everyone else. |
DP here. I understand what you're saying. The WTU-supporters are pretending to not understand you because what they really want is parents to keep lowering expectations. This whole "we here in the U.S. expect too much from our schools" rhetoric is the latest union talking point along with "Parents shouldn't weigh in on what's best for the education of children. Leave that to the professionals!" |
DP here. This. It just doesn't make sense for us to vote for someone whose positions we adamantly oppose. This position the teachers are taking is so bizarre and entitled. Of course we're not obligated to vote for him just because you like him even though he harmed our kids. |
Not the pp you're responding to here, but while WTU has had a bad reputation for a long time, parents used to generally separate the union form actual teachers. Now we saw that the actual teachers largely supported school closures and even went on strike to protest a small number of the most vulnerable students returning to in person school. It changed the way many parents feel about the actual teachers. I'll will never again volunteer at a teacher appreciation week activity, although I used to gladly do it. |
Darn |
You're missing the point. It's that there has indeed been a big change and many parents no longer support teachers the way they used to; not that some moms don't want to serve you breakfast once a year. |
No I get it |
Exactly this. But central office and city council want to mainstream everyone because of “equity”. It is helpful to no one. |
Teacher who agrees with you 100%. Know that part of the problem here is that you can’t just “send” a child off without parental permission. Parents who don’t return phone calls, blame the school, or call you a racist and threaten legal action don’t help. They’re basically say, “I have no interest in caring for my child but I’ll be damned if someone else is going to do it!” |
Absolutely I realize this. And also agree with the PP that DCPS focuses on "equity" above all else and uses that word in a way that is often detrimental to everyone, especially the children they are professing to help. The cynic in me also thinks that by tolerating this type of behavioral disruption, DPCS also realizes that it often drives away the families who care most about education. Since those are also the families who are most likely to be vocal and demanding about educational rigor and quality, the DCPS central office and school administration can then coast along in mediocrity or worse, while it is the classroom teachers who have to endure abuse and chaos. |