Positive family therapist

[Anonymous]

DH is going through a difficult time, and lately, has started yelling at the slightest trigger. I strongly believe we need to address this issue as a family, rather than throw in the towel and ask for a divorce, but without help, that is the path we're heading on. We need a therapist, possibly a psychologist, able to make a medical diagnostic and outline a plan. I am looking for someone who can pragmatically and positively address the problem, rather than someone to assign blame.

Where do we start? We are in Fairfax cty -- anywhere close to the 66 and dulles hwy 'pie" would work for us. Do people first start with a psychologist, then decide if therapy should be added, or start therapy and rely on the therapist advice for a psychologist?