Backpack that won't look like I've given up

[Anonymous]

Tired of switching between bags for work/commuting, bag for weekend, seasonal colors/materials and just want something that will hold all of my stuff (and a handful of snacks, cloth diapers, small wet bag, water bottles, snacks for a busybody toddler) and not make me look like a college student. My office is business dress, but not particularly stylish (older employees mostly). My style is mostly traditional, not trendy. I have no shoulders so bonus points if it will stay on my shoulder (which is why I am considering a backpack) and relatively lightweight. Totes with shoulder straps are always falling off. I'm 33.

I considered something like this, but the outside pockets are small and DH flipped at a $300 backpack.

http://m.ebags.com/product/tumi/voyageur-calais-backpack/243518?productid=10214801

Or tell me what I want doesn't exist. TIA!

[Anonymous]

I have to say, all my Tumi gear looks brand new after at least 5 years of dragging it everywhere all over the world. Check out the Tumi outlet in Leesburg, they often have awesome deals!

[Anonymous]

Maybe this?

https://www.everlane.com/collections/womens-backpacks

[Anonymous]

http://www.ebags.com/product/le-donne-leather/womens-everyday-back-pack-purse/213532?productid=10134679&sourceid=ADWPRODUCT&couponid=94790994&gclid=CKmGkdW__rwCFeRlOgodensAHQ&kwid=productads-plaid^18283950120-sku^10134679-adType^PLA-device^c-adid^33615788178

[Anonymous]

I think a cross body messenger bag might work, and there are many cuter options than for backpacks.

[Anonymous]

Backpacks are "in" this season so I bet you'll find some good options.

[Anonymous]

I bought Marc by Marc Jacobs. It is 250 but I got 25% at shopbop

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think a cross body messenger bag might work, and there are many cuter options than for backpacks.

I find a backpack to be much more comfortable with the weight evenly distributed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think a cross body messenger bag might work, and there are many cuter options than for backpacks.

I find a backpack to be much more comfortable with the weight evenly distributed.

I'm actually pretty short-waisted anyway, and messenger bags are not flattering on me. I'm either kicking them with each step, or they're up under my armpits. -OP

I found a cute backpack/handbag at Marshall's that's big enough to hold a number of things, but hopefully still be decent looking. I'm so not into trends and wouldn't have even known these were popular.

[Anonymous]

I like the Everlane one. You could also check out the Longchamp pliage backpacks. I have an old Coach backpack purse that is indestructible, so it's worth spending the money for a good one if you think you might keep it for years and years.

[Anonymous]

I've gotten a lot of compliments on this one: http://www.ebags.com/product/knomo/montague-15-laptop-backpack/264579?productid=10274173

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have to say, all my Tumi gear looks brand new after at least 5 years of dragging it everywhere all over the world. Check out the Tumi outlet in Leesburg, they often have awesome deals!

I agree, Tumi is excellent.

OP --

This isn't going to help because these bags are not inexpensive, but I love MZ Wallace -- well made, very durable and so functional.

http://mzwallace.com/shop/products/2950089-0000/marlena-black-bedford

[Anonymous]

Just get the tumi one. You'll have it for years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to say, all my Tumi gear looks brand new after at least 5 years of dragging it everywhere all over the world. Check out the Tumi outlet in Leesburg, they often have awesome deals!

I agree, Tumi is excellent.

OP --

This isn't going to help because these bags are not inexpensive, but I love MZ Wallace -- well made, very durable and so functional.

http://mzwallace.com/shop/products/2950089-0000/marlena-black-bedford

I was going to suggest this MZ Wallace backpack as well. I have several of their bags, the material holds up very well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to say, all my Tumi gear looks brand new after at least 5 years of dragging it everywhere all over the world. Check out the Tumi outlet in Leesburg, they often have awesome deals!

I agree, Tumi is excellent.

OP --

This isn't going to help because these bags are not inexpensive, but I love MZ Wallace -- well made, very durable and so functional.

http://mzwallace.com/shop/products/2950089-0000/marlena-black-bedford

I was going to suggest this MZ Wallace backpack as well. I have several of their bags, the material holds up very well.

I saw this one...very cute. Thanks for all the recs!