Friend dates younger/pretty women and seriously thinks they want him
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Anonymous
| I have a friend. He is 37 years old and seems like he is desperately seeking love. Great and I support him but he goes about it the wrong way. He told me he has two women that say they love him and want to be with him. Great I thought! He sent me photos and they are both 27, though look younger and model like. He is not attractive, very ogre like and socially awkward. Before I get flamed, we are friends because of a sugar daddy type relationship. He seriously thinks these women are into him and madly in love with him. How do I tell him that these women don't want him, only want his money, which he said he didn't lead with his money this time (not sure I believe that). How do you politely tell someone that these women are not on his level or the other way around. |
Anonymous
| You don't. You MYOB. Don't embarrass yourself and your friend by pretending you have his best interests at heart in this situation. Smile and be supportive, and his personal life will work itself out without your help. |
Anonymous
| But he is dating these women. So they are on his 'level'. Sour grapes? |
Anonymous
| OP I've been meaning to tell you that your husband is not on your level and just married you for your money. There! How did that go down! |
Anonymous
| So they want him for his money and he wants them bc they're hot. Sounds like a perfect match. |
Anonymous
| Ummm you are friends because of a sugar daddy relationship? Haha youre just mad these hotter girls are going to get his money instead of you! |
Anonymous
| 37 dating a 27 year old is not that bad - 10 years isn't the worst difference I've seen. Unless he's being obnoxious and bragging about all the hotties who want him (which would be annoying from anyone, ugly or hot), who cares? If they are using him for his money and he's using them for their looks, it's kind of a fair trade until one person decides it isn't. |
Anonymous
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This seems trollish.
I've always dated older guys. My current bf is 10 years older than me. |
Anonymous
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How have you all missed that this "friend" is OP's SUGAR DADDY. The only reason OP has an issue with it is because he's going to cut off money to her in favor of these other women.
Pathetic. |
Anonymous
Which is great, however, that aren't on the same level look wise and he is known to have sugar babies, I being one of them. He fell in love with me, I fell in love with his money and he knew this. He seriously thinks these women want to marry and date him and he is so in love with them. I'm not jealous, I'm not married, I don't want him. He is very innocent and naive. He will get heart broken. |
Anonymous
He was my sugar daddy. Not anymore. He crossed the line when he put feelings into it. I broke it off but we remained friends. I get this sing the norm on DCUM of the area. |
Anonymous
| I feel bad for you, OP. I really do. You had a "sugar daddy"? Ugh... |
Anonymous
| I do feel bad for OP. You sound really jealous and I"m sorry that you lost your sugar daddy. Do you have a new one? Perhaps if you got a new one then maybe you wouldn't so be jealous. |
Anonymous
| You are not his friend. That is the information he needs to know. |
Anonymous
Unless you're pissed about being replaced, I don't know why you'd care about the intent of his girlfriends. They could like him for him, even though you only liked his money. Different strokes and whatnot. |