What do I tell my husband about his father? I am from Russia. His father is ex-U.S. military. He flew bombers armed with atomic bombs targeted on my motherland. I cannot get over that had he been asked he would have killed me and my family just b/c we were Russian. I do not want him in my house. |
Is this post real? Your "motherland?" Really? |
How did you get to the point of marrying him when you harbor this much animosity? Therapy OP. I can understand where you are coming from, but you are not behaving rationally. How do you know he wasn't drafted and hated every single minute of his life while in the military? |
This has to be a joke. |
Doubt it. I know some Russians who are absolutely nuts. |
T-word. |
Bombers with atomic bombs targeting Russia???? Huh? This does not even make any sense. Sarah Palin is this you? Can you see Russia from your back yard? I am calling an anti-Russian troll. |
Or OP is just crazy. Which seems more likely than an anti-Russian troll which seems pretty random. |
I also know some PEOPLE who are absolutely nuts. I think NUTS happens in all cultural backgrounds. |
You should have gotten therapy for this when you found out what you future father in law does. You should not have gotten married until you got this resolved in therapy.
You need to go to therapy to address this immediately. |
Ummm….you really shouldn't have married an American. |
You tell your husband that you want a divorce, and then seek therapy on your own. |
Why are you even in America, if you feel so strongly about this? |
Trollsky |
My grandfathers fought on opposite sides of WWII. Both of their countries suffered atrocities at the hands of the other. Notwithstanding, my parents fell in love and married. Their parents were surprised but not angry. No one had to "get over" anything. So... either you're the greatest dunce ever or you're enjoying your little mean self. |